"One Day Only!" and "Me First!"

Hi Austin!

How do you gents feel about traveling girls who are only in town for one day? Does it cross your mind she may be higher volume than someone who stays for multiple days? Do you care? And if you do: Do you try to be the first? If you can't be the absolute first, do you try to at least schedule for earlier in the day?

Ladies:

If you travel, how long are you in one place? Do you find that most guys try to schedule super early on the first day you're in town? Do you charge more for first day dates, or early morning dates?

As a frequently traveling escort, I always stay in a city at least three days. It gives me to time to settle in and get acclimated to my surroundings. Scheduling is easier because I don't have to see everyone in just one day. I can spread my dates out and approach them without rushing.

I'm a little embarrassed to say that it kind of offends me when guys clamor to be the first. I really don't understand why it matters? If the provider is clean, fresh and eager, then what gives? And how can you be sure she is being honest about you being her first?

I'm specifically asking this in Austin, because there seems to be a lot of talk about the lack of "talent" in this city. With said, I was wondering if guys in Austin would be more willing to take the "out of sight, out of mind approach" when it comes to a highly desirable traveling gal's volume.

Thanks, y'all!

I'm always amazed at guys that are naive enough think they are the only guy that day.....

I'm a "gotta be first" guy if it's a provider.....

There have been a couple over the years I would see late but only after winding down over drinks and then it was usually spending the night and they were traveling gals.

I am a gotta be first guy too, cant help it,,,,,,,,,

I prefer later in the day when they are fully fluffed and potentially buzzed from the Champagne. ;-)

Yeah its funny when they say "how many dates have you had today" lol ! Dude like your really gonna get an honest answer lol !

I'm always amazed at guys that are naive enough think they are the only guy that day.....

I'm a "gotta be first" guy if it's a provider.....
Originally Posted by Whispers

I am a gotta be first guy too, cant help it,,,,,,,,, Originally Posted by westex69

But this takes, a lot trust, right? I learned a long time ago that if you gain trust, you gain a faithful regular. However, if a girl is just traveling through and you don't know her from Pam, do you trust that you're actually her first date of the day? If she's honest and says that she cant accommodate your request, do you move on? Or will her honesty make you more inclined to see her?

It's funny to me how the madonna/whore complex permeates through every aspect of Male/Female relationships. Men even want their hookers to be somewhat virginial!

@Jay Walker: I like the way you think, my friend.

I tend to be an early to mid morning type myself, and it would seem that with traveling ladies this just might cut both ways.

Had an 8:30am with a visitor once, had an amazing time, how was I to know that of course Metal was there at 5am! Did I care when I found out, no, she was fresh and ready when I arrived, and like I said had a great time.

Another time had a similar 8:30am, get there on time, turns out she had been out partying till 2 something in the am, she had a bit of a hangover, so needless to say that experience was far from enjoyable.

A wise man once said ... I don't care if I'm the 100th guy she's done, I just want to be remembered as her last.

Probably a bit tough to apply that to the provider/client relationship.

I don't worry too much about being the 1st. As others said... no telling if you are really the 1st for the day or not.

Though, I have to admit that I would be hard pressed to do DATY if I knew for a fact that another guy was there 10 mins ago. I know it should not matter (if she's fresh and cleaned up). But it's my mental hangup.

I remember one time in Atlanta Buckhead area, I was walking into her incall while a guy was walking out. I went in, got my a quick BJ and was out of there. I shall never call her again.

Just like it's bad manners to ask the provider personal Qs, I think some things are taboo for us guys (let me not put words in other ppl's mouths so I'll say it's taboo for me). For example, the casual glance of Johns as they pass one another in the hotel corridor.

This happens entirely too often (I speak from personal experience), and I hope readers can get past the "criticism" apect of this post and can also appreciate the constructive angle.

Please manage your appointments to where there is a comfortable buffer of time between the time one John leaves, and the next one comes in.

It is not a contest and you don't have to be all-in every hand.

Love the city a little at a time please, and enjoy yourself in the process.

Burnout is a bitch for us as well, since we look forward to being with you very very much.

As long as she is fresh AND I think I am first I am happy :-)

A wise man once said ... I don't care if I'm the 100th guy she's done, I just want to be remembered as her last.

Probably a bit tougher to apply that to the provider/client relationship.

I don't worry too much about being the 1st. As others said... no telling if you are really the 1st for the day or not.

Though, I have to admit that I would be hard pressed to do DATY if I knew for a fact that another guy was there 10 mins ago. I know it should not matter (if she's fresh and cleaned up). But it's my mental hangup.

I remember one time in Atlanta Buckhead area area, I was walking into her incall while a guy was walking out. I went in, got my a quick BJ and was out of there. I shall never call her again.

Just like it's bad manners to ask the provider personal Qs, I think some things are taboo for us guys (let me not put words in other ppl's mouths so I'll say it's taboo for me). For example, the casual glance of Johns as they pass one another in the hotel corridor.

This happens entirely too often (I speak from personal experience), and I hope readers can get past the "criticism" apect of this post and can also appreciate the constructive angle.

Please manage your appointments to where there is a comfortable buffer of time between the time one John leaves, and the next one comes in.

It is not a contest and you don't have to be all-in every hand.

Love the city a little at a time please, and enjoy yourself in the process.

Burnout is a bitch for us as well, since we look forward to being with you very much. Originally Posted by rrrabbit

Great post, Rabbit.

i believe if shes a good provider and makes sure she and her incall are "prepped" for you it wont matter whether its 5am or 5pm, shes gonna make you feel as though your the 1st of the day and youll never know the difference. dont overthink it . we all know we arent her one and only. if its sooooo important to be the 1st of the day, get a SO. dont let your imagination fuck up your fantasy.

I'm not naive, I know what you (and I) are doing, and I'll meet any time that is mutually agreeable. I'm paying for 2-3 hours of your time...nothing more...but I DO expect you to be ready, willing and able and make our meeting feel like it's about us.

One very well regarded Austin provider met me at her door naked and wet, fresh from the shower. She tasted like cigarettes but she doesn't smoke. I must have missed the guy before me by no more than 5-10 minutes. Total turn-off for me and I won't return.

Some providers may criticize me but I think if you are really good at this business there is some illusion involved (like, I want you to want me...not just use me).

I don't care either way. As long as we're both fresh and clean, I'll take my chances on the provider remembering me. Most of them do -- mostly because I'm a silly fuck. I mean a SILLY fuck. I fuck like a silly person. Occasionally, I get to meet providers who are silly and so I get to fuck a SILLY person.

Oh, yeah, that and because I've got the biggest dick since Moby and make all the ladies come four or twelve times in a half hour! Except for the incontinent ones, of course...

I tend to avoid the "one day only" ads unless it is someone I have seen in the past and want to see again. I do not have a "me first" requirement, and there is no way of knowing anyways.

I have historically booked around lunch time (for my convenience), and while that never guarantees that I am early in the rotation, it often helps.

If I knew there had been four others there in the past six hours, it would be a turn-off. If I don't know for sure, and can't tell, then I am a happy camper.

So the "one day only" ads are overlooked by me because I assume she will be working a tight schedule and she will have trouble fulfilling my "don't know and can't tell" requirements.

Interesting thread. I'll use bullet points since Eccie will not allow a Power Point presentation.

1) One day visits - I will almost never see a provider that visits for one day, not because volume is an issue, but rather because this indicates a general lack of planning which nearly always means difficulty getting an appointment. I consider it a TCB issue rather than a volume issue. 70% of the time, the provider won't even show in town that day.

2) Early in the day - sure, all else equal, I'd rather be earlier in the day. This is typically because I'm not sure what kind of energy level I'm dealing with in an unknown provider. I'm more of a daytime hobbyist, so earlier usually is better based on experience. If I could hobby at night, this issue wouldn't concern me because then I could make better use of the liquored up principle. Some of my best sessions involved having a couple of drinks with a non-psycho provider and getting her comfortable with the inevitable disappointment of sleeping with me.

3) Volume - completely depends on reputation. For example, KLK is a pro with an excellent reputation. Not an issue. One of my favorite providers, now retired, was an Asian spinner who saw 4-6 clients a day (I think) when she traveled. I trusted her to be clean and ready to go, so not an issue. There are providers on the sketchier side who are high volume that I will not see. If I get a review vibe that a gal schedules her johnnies too close together, again, bad planning = bad business = what else does she do wrong? For example, there was one very popular provider who had a review, confirmed eventually by both clients, that suggested she saw the next client in line without even bathing. That shit's too old west for me.