Hey alll.....definitely lookin into this domination thing....im really good at being submissive but need a few pointers to pull out the dominatrix in me!!!! any advice both point of views are helpful!!!
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kzp, Tiffany asked for advice on BEING Dominant, that getting Dominated!
Tiffany, I can help you in so many ways. If you REALLY WANT to be dominant, then you will be. Here are a few (much better) links you can start with to give you ideas:
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Since you are new, I'd recommend starting slow and avoiding some of the more hardcore stuff. Start with giving spankings/paddlings, boot and body worship (dato/daty on YOUR command), verbal humiliation, cuffing a guy and then punching his lights out, sensual tease...stuff like that. If you want to explore Strap-on training (i've noticed most ladies REALLY are strapon curious), start out with "strapon worship" - that's where You strapon a big one and have the guy kneel before you and worship, lick, suck it....you train him to gives bjs. That will help you ease into it rather than juming right into the anal penetration stuff.
The best clips for a lady who is exploring her DOMME side are the POV ones. Check-out the really good Dominant Ladies who do POVs...you can really hear what they are thinking and get lots of ideas on how you want to take charge and what you'll say to your pathetic little slaves asYou are doing it!
thank you
I think that your submissive tendencies already have you on the right track. I never use any toy or technique on a play partner that I have not experienced myself. My personal worst try it first experience was "figging." Look it up.
My point is that having empathy for the person at the other end of the flogger & knowing the emotional & endorphin roller coaster you are captaining will make you a much better Domme. Good luck.
Visit VerLes. It is attached to the Sara's Secret on 635/Preston. The sales guy there is great with these things.