Gfe or limited gfe

Lexi13's Avatar
Hey I'm having trouble determining what's gfe and what limited gfe. Anybody care to explain what actually goes into being a gfe provider or even just an limited one.

Also, I'm always looking to be on the safe side when screening my clients. If anyone has any proven methods that you can share with me . Please drop me a PM. Thank you, be safe, and have fun!
JDS87's Avatar
  • JDS87
  • 09-27-2014, 01:15 PM
GFE - DFK, BBBJ, DATY, conversation, warm towel cleanup

Limited GFE - LFK, CBJ, no DATY, straight to business, cold towel cleanup,
CryptKicker's Avatar
I've always considered anything other than GFE to be non-GFE. To me there is no such thing as "Limited GFE".
Lexi13's Avatar
I'll keep that in mind when communicating with clients in regards to my menu.
Thanks
knotty man's Avatar
limited gfe......you only get to put the tip in
busternutzs's Avatar
I consider Limited GFE to be no Kissing and CBJ and usually does include DATTY. Some providers don't even allow fingers to be inserted in any access point.

There are different opinions obviously and it will vary from provider to provider.

There is Limited GFE, or Non GFE as CK has pointed out then there is GFE and Full GFE.

I'd be curious to know what is on CK's idea of a Non GFE provider's menu.

It's kind of like the provider that says she does everything but anal. Then you asked if kissing, BBBJ and CIM are available and she says no.
Three Piece Chicken Dinne's Avatar
I've always considered anything other than GFE to be non-GFE. To me there is no such thing as "Limited GFE". Originally Posted by CryptKicker
I have to agree. It's GFE or non-GFE. Anything else helps a provider blur the lines and claim to be something they are not.
kkgenki's Avatar
there is no such thing as Limited GFE

you are either going to get a provider who likes what they are doing
or someone who will rush you
CryptKicker's Avatar
There is Limited GFE, or Non GFE as CK has pointed out then there is GFE and Full GFE.

I'd be curious to know what is on CK's idea of a Non GFE provider's menu. Originally Posted by busternutzs
As you clearly misread my post let me restate the obvious again for you. If you are not GFE then you are Non-GFE in my opinion. There is NO "limited GFE". That term is bullshit in my opinion.
JDS87's Avatar
  • JDS87
  • 09-27-2014, 08:48 PM
After reading the posts, I have to agree with CK. GFE is a very clear set of expectations and activities. You either meet those expectations, or you don't. As a result, there's GFE, and non-GFE.
busternutzs's Avatar
After reading the posts, I have to agree with CK. GFE is a very clear set of expectations and activities. You either meet those expectations, or you don't. As a result, there's GFE, and non-GFE. Originally Posted by JDS87
So what are these expectations and activities? That's what I'm looking for or trying to define?
If they are very clear what are they?
Is there a list of activities or menu that defines and separates Non GFE from GFE?

I'm not try to be argumentative. I'm only trying to get information so I can be more knowledgeable on the subject? That's why I am asking for specifics.
john_deere's Avatar
the best policy - and the responses prove this - is don't use the term gfe at all.

state what you offer in clear terms and don't worry if it meets some arbitrary definition of a "girlfriend experience" because you'll always be wrong in someone's eyes.

using the term sets you up for failure and isn't going to improve your business or your experience.
Perfect Playmate's Avatar
GFE - In Hobby terms is if your menu offers DFK/LFK DATY & BBBJ


It has nothing to do with being rushed or unrushed and can not determine anything else aside from the services. How a lady treats you is based upon each lady. I am a non gfe lady due to my own preference. Although I do not offer those specific services I still, take my time, am very passionate, clean my fellas up, offer warm towel or shower (not sure why someone would throw a cold wash cloth on ya unless you asked) and always show a great time... This is the first time I have heard that being a gfe provider determines the quality of the session rather the type of services that are being offered. Of course everyone has there own opinions on what GFE is really suppose to be which is why there is so much confusion about the term so people come up with twists for the words...

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CryptKicker's Avatar
So maybe we need Non-GFE and limited Non-GFE...... LOL
sailorman1980's Avatar
GFE does not, as Nikki points out, automatically mean a bad time. One of my all time favorites, Adrianna, is what I would call non-GFE. No kissing, CBJ, but she does allow DATY, FIV and she cleans you up. She's a great conversationalist and genuinely interested in her clients (and sure as hell does not clock watch). For me the make out session is what determines if it is GFE or not. You kiss girl friends, therefore GFE.

At one point I really wanted all providers I see to be GFE, but I've had a great time with non-kissing, CBJ providers and now it just depends on the woman. If she's into it, I'm into it.