? Sable wants to know what everyone definition is of gfe?

I am a little confused with all the reviews and all the girls who advertise gfe


so I would like to know what everyones definition is of g f e?
LucadeJure's Avatar
For me, GFE means both parties have made a connection on an intellectual and sexual level and their interest in pleasing each other reflects it. It takes a bit of communication prior to the first meeting and continued communication on verbal and non-verbal levels when the appointment takes place. The eyes reveal volumes. And yes, it takes more than one meeting to get to that level so I make every effort to make our times together enjoyable for the lady each time we meet. I guess that means I strive for a GFE/BFE.
For most, the standard definition is kissing and BBBJ. There are lots of intangibles (as noted in the post above mine), but those two menu items seem to be what most men think will be available when they see "GFE".

No kissing or CBJ tend to be labeled as "GFE Lite", on a good day LOL
snowking2010's Avatar
DFK, for me is a must for gfe. Having said that, I have seen some who only did LFK and I had a great time, but was not really GFE to me. There are other things like holding, etc. I like GFE, but if its not available or its GFE lite, all good as long as i know what to expect and what not to expect, assuming good breath, etc.
RoDunn's Avatar
It varies for different guys, but for some of us, it not just a list of menu items -- bbbj, dfk, daty -- but the lady's attitude and enthusiasm while doing them, as well as throughout the whole session. Some girls perform these services with less enthusiasm than a blow-up doll, and that level of service certainly isn't GFE in my book.
DFK + BBBJ + DATY + CFS.

Anything less is not GFE.
Gonzo DFW's Avatar
Treat me like you're my girlfriend.
GFE = Girl Friend Experience

I never had a Girlfriend who wouldn't kiss (DFK) me passionately. However, there are a couple of xGF's that wouldn't let me round 3rd base.

The illusion of passion (IOP) is therefore critical for a GFE. The illusion that you are enjoying being with your client and that the donation doesn't have anything to do with it. The GFE provider "provides" the illusion that convinces her client she really has the hots for him. (Even though we both really know it's a business transaction.)

For most guys it's near impossible to feel the IOP without quality kissing (DFK & LFK).

Hence, good acting skills help.

Great GFE ladies are hard to find. PSE (Porn Star Experience) providers are dime a dozen. Dannie is one of the very rare ones that can do both to near perfection.
LFK, DFK, BBBJ, HJ, DATY, DATO, SYBIAN.
CIM is just icing on the cock.
Sophia Dane3.0's Avatar
LFK, DFK, BBBJ, HJ, DATY, DATO, SYBIAN.
CIM is just icing on the cock. Originally Posted by Prolongus

I guess I better go buy a Sybian.
I guess I better go buy a Sybian. Originally Posted by Sophia Dane
LOL!

Naw, you got the GFE gig down right.
........Great GFE ladies are hard to find. PSE (Porn Star Experience) providers are dime a dozen. Dannie is one of the very rare ones that can do both to near perfection. Originally Posted by Dick Willy
....thank you so much!
....thank you so much! Originally Posted by Dannie
You're welcome.
Front Bottom's Avatar
I agree with the other replies.

GFE = DFK, BBBJ, CIM is a bonus
bojulay's Avatar
It's kind of a mind thing. If a girl can put the donation
out of her mind, and not have a mind set that it's
all about that. Because if not it will be a subtle reflection
found to affect the whole session. Maybe not right there
in the guys face, but in the background somewhere.
That not quite right feeling, too much of an apparent
awareness that it's all just a facade. A hint of being rushed.
That ever so slight feeling of awkwardness.
Not because of a first meeting, but because of a
lack of connection, and being on the same page.
Intimacy with a background of unconnected distance.

If a girl can keep from projecting this, and then treat
the guy like he's the boyfriend she hasn't seen in about
a month. With a genuine encounter of interest, passion, and
raw sexuality. That feeling of mutual passion. Most guys
want a girl to enjoy herself as much as they do.

Then that would be my description of a true GFE experience.

But I didn't say it was easy, some girls would certainly have
to try harder than others, and most guys never even get this with
their wives or real girlfriends.

If a provider can truly provide this experience, she should have
them lined up outside her door.

( I sure say feeling a lot. I like feeling. )