facebook and eccie and outing not knowing when to STFU

Nice pics on Facebook. . . Originally Posted by SteveDaFalls

guys n gals in this game should just say NO to facebook Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Wait a second! Doesn't everybody have their hobby number attached to their Facebook account?

Originally Posted by SteveDaFalls

only if they want to be outed
she did not post her facebook account
thanks for outing she on facebook and how to find it 'not Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

I concur!

But I did search her number and she is cute!! Originally Posted by TreeBark

I have not
but I'm not on that site

so does it look like a
a whore account for hooking?
or
a personal account she would not want on eccie? Thinking she not knowing what she doing yet, and did not delete number from that account. Also locking that account up before posting number on eccie? Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

I think all quoted posts should be removed from where they from. And debate it here.
But I am not a mod or admin for eccie, so what do I know.

If a facebook account dos not look that it be part of the hobby, then is posting about that account ok. I would think not and would be outing per guidelines of this board.

debate please here now rather than thread were this started

I think all quoted posts should be removed from where they from. And debate it here.
But I am not a mod or admin for eccie, so what do I know.

If a facebook account dos not look that it be part of the hobby, then is posting about that account ok. I would think not and would be outing per guidelines of this board.

debate please here now rather than thread were this started Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

STFU is not one of the better qualities of many posters on this site.....

elg........

STFU is not one of the better qualities of many posters on this site.....

elg........ Originally Posted by elghund

oh jimmie ...ya be quackin

STFU is not one of the better qualities of many posters on this site.....

elg........ Originally Posted by elghund

after my 3rd post I asked mods if outing knowing I'm taking a bit of a risk
no reply
4th I was thinking I'm risking the current 1 year ban for outing myself if its outing as I think it should be.
I don't think Mr. Falls understands all the risks he is in nor just may have put her in. As for sure some dumb fuck will post to her facebook thanks for the fuck and BJ money well spent. So STFU and not post in open about there is a facebook account is only part of the problem.

edit add: there are fools on eccie that would post to that facebook. Now add all the lurkers eccie would have no control of. Fuck I should have RTM'ed it at my 2nd post rather than waiting till latter.

now if someone found a BP escort ad, I would have no problem that being posted.
Or a CL ad depending where in CL it was in.

For once i agree with you. I rtmed it,.pmed her, and emailed her.

Just saying someone has a FB account is NOT outing. Its probably safe to say that most of us have one. Now if an actual link gets posted, then we would deal with that depending on what it was.

In the meantime, thanks Lexxy for contacting her and at least try to warn/coach her about keeping real life and hobby life separated. I know most ladies take to that type of thing so well, but I hope she listens. But seriously, there is only so much we can do to protect people if they don't know, or take, the appropriate precautions themselves. These forums are chock full of examples of that on both sides.

That is the key question, and the one that any outing decision will be based on. Steve should be able to answer that one.
In the meantime, who's gonna chance it and jump off the cliff first?

Just because you are able to research and find something sure doesn't mean you need to post it here.
Our site guidelines about outing will always trump. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

and may I quote cc from that thread

Quote this too...."STFU is some great advice to a lot of people here, on a variety of topics"

And Word of the Day is.....

dis·cre·tion
dəˈskreSH(ə)n/
noun
1.
the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offense or revealing private information.
"she knew she could rely on his discretion"

So guessing its not outing per CC. I'm not saying it was wrong to check if you have FB.
But it don't seem right somehow to posting someone has a FB with the thinking
most are not to be part of the hobby. But part of real world only. Link or not it is to easy find unless she has the FB settings so it would not be easy to find so simply.

I will thank you CC for posting in the welcome threAD and this thread. Even I disagree a bit on this.

Part of what I have done for hookers is endless searching to make sure real and hobby do not mix. Like cell carrier posting phone numbers of there customers real name like a phone book with address. One cell company did that a lot. They will take it off if you ask. But they do not ask if that is ok when buying. And a cash and carry out min cell can get costly for a gal buying min cards over a not listed contract cell.
edit add: A hobby min. cell works great for hobbyist. Not so much for providers that gets lots of text and calls.

Quote this too...."STFU is some great advice to a lot of people here, on a variety of topics"

And Word of the Day is..... Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

yes and BY MY VERY POSTS I state I should have STFU sooner and RTM'ed sooner myself. But IMHO posting that someone has a FB that clearly someone has not set the settings to keep it from being so easily found yet is wrong.

As in the past some members and lurkers of this board have posted to a FB on hobby stuff for family and friends to see. Then asking ahhh WTF is this shit on your FB.

So to her I will say I'm sorry for my part in this outing of her FB

Lets examine the guideline

#5 - Outing or threats of outing are taken seriously. Membership here is anonymous and for the privacy of our members it will remain that way. That means any effort or attempt to connect a person's real world information to their username on this board will be dealt with swiftly and harshly. This includes real names, employment, medical info, addresses past or present, images, criminal or driving record, etc. We expect everyone who participates here to respect and go to great lengths to protect the anonymity and privacy of one another. Reckless disregard or accidental outing will also be taken very seriously.

SO what great length has everyone go to here to protect the anonymity? I'm looking at you Steve. Just because you can find something does not mean you need to bring it to the site. The only reason we have not had a private conversation, to this point, is that there has not been an actual link posted. Of course if that FB profile is linked to her hobby persona this this all moot, as lots of ladies (stupidly) maintain a hobby FB account.

And of course, OSD now making such a public spectacle of this whole thing, to the point of starting an entire new thread about it, certainly does draw an even more increased awareness. Great discretion there, and going to great lengths to protect other members from possible issues. Perhaps a private communication with the lady in question would have been a better approach? i.e, the STFU mantra that YOU stated when starting a new thread; and doing exactly the opposite. Sigh....

I expect someone will step up to the edge and promptly jump to their death soon. Who's is going to be?

I started this thread in hope the posts in the first thread would be deleted. As then linking back would not be and one would get the you can not see that post page.

as one would get if someone gave the url for a ML thread in the open. But one that does not have PA to see it will get that its a dead end page. You can not go there.

so with that in mind how much time off do I get? just askin
90 or less no problem. More I will not be happy but nothing I can about it. Hell I would be happy if you emailed me after. You still have my email CC?

btw edit add: with your edit of above post can I take my like back? just askin

btw handle in question is so far not in this thread at all

Outing seems a stretch, doesn't it? Who doesn't search a girl's number? Did he post any personal info? A link to said FB page? I don't agree this is outing... esp since teh number she supplied is linked to a FB account. Not everyone is the most tech savvy, but c'mon! Originally Posted by doctorisin

your kidding right
I'm not even on FB and can see how it is done
yes IMHO a image in a way
And who knows I have not looked but maybe other things in guidelines

I'm not on facebook but have read the rules/terms of use for it. If it looks to used for something not ok by FB account can be deleted. And hobby is not listed but if you read the terms of FB, hobby is a no no.
So I would think account is not for this game.

Or you thinking it ok as she did a ops move?