Why do I do this?

I hobby with my head held high! No guilt, no shame, no regrets. I hobby selectively and the ladies I see are worthy of my respect and generosity. I hobby for not just the physical contact, but equally for an intellectual and emotional connection if only temporary. A great provider leaves a man feeling better about himself and life in general. If a man leaves a session feeling any other way he should deeply inspect his reason for being there or whom he chooses to hobby with.

Well said. +1

Loving the confidence!

Love it ...

confidence is sexy!


This hobby should be about making each other feel good/feel relaxed & rejuvenated!

Could not agree more and believe it should be along those same lines for the ladies as well. If and when you no longer enjoy it, it's time to quit and move on.

It HAS to be about more than an orgasm....hell I can do that myself.

Ditto..
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This hobby should be about making each other feel good/feel relaxed & rejuvenated...connection is important.....its about enjoying the journey.

Right we can

It HAS to be about more than an orgasm....hell I can do that myself. Originally Posted by rtucker63

Beautifully stated.

Great thread.

I have said many times that the reason most of us guys are here is to pay to have at least a temporary connection with a provider who under normal circumstances would probably not even give the time of day to those guys.

Unfortunately, there are some poeple who are here to rain on everyone's parade and that is their fun (aka trolls), and their are providers who use the hobby platform to decieve guys into their web of ripping them off.

I love this!! I honestly feel the same way!!

intellectual connection? what sort of conversations do you have, how many different ways are there to count 300 roses?

I can choose what I want and how I want it. I want a spinner that does Greek or a BBW that loves to swallow my load, or vice versa, I can have it. I want two, three, four women at a time, no problem. I do this for convenience.

I just got an amazing bj, and I am thinking about having a little fun later this week. I have never participated in a Greek session, so maybe I will find a nice lady who likes that and let’s me be a pornstar for a while.

Why do I do it? It freaking fun that’s why!

Agree fully and most especially with the"worthy of respect" comment. (speaking of course of the honest and forthright ladies who see us as clients and not tricks) I have often wondered why so many men in their reviews throw dignity and respect right out the window in regards to so many of these ladies? Odd how some seem to treat a woman like a queen then write about her like a dog turd stuck to the bottom of their shoe. Any thoughts ladies?