Behavior differences from region to region?.....

Was wondering what both providers and clients think about each other in the various regions of the country.....I'm currently in Oklahoma and most of the girls and providers are what I would call "semi normal", not extreme in either direction. I've been thinking of relocation to Scottsdale, AZ I have only visited and all seem friendly. First let me say I'm not speaking to all providers as I can count on two fingers the number I have seen, but my personal experience with girls in general in the Pacific NW are more friendly, while in the New England not so much. Southeast, very friendly. North Central, don't know. Your thoughts......?

while in the New England not so much. Southeast, very friendly. ......? Originally Posted by Crash Davis

we call that "Southern Hospitality" -- people here are in general friendly. I think providers tend to reflect the norms of the rest of the population where they are located.

Not to hijack your thread, but I'd be more interested in norms like upselling, pressure for tips, limited services, etc. that vary by location.

I don't travel a lot but when I have, I've noticed some fairly extreme differences. But what I believe "could" be the difference is clients will act slightly differently if there is a chance that they will be able to see you on a regular basis. So maybe they're a little nicer in Dallas if you live in Dallas? I'm not sure but I have very good experiences with Dallas men and men who I visit with in Dallas.

What I have noticed differently, and I noticed this in San Francisco and in DC (I've only been to a few places), is when I'm a visiting escort, men treat me more as something that they've paid for and it isn't as personal. Perhaps this is the difference of what alt said, "southern hospitality" being what it is. But I remember one appointment and I was almost "there", I mean like one second away from an intense feeling, and the man said after he stopped (I was red faced, panting and flustered), "I know that you were close to an orgasm but it's about me. Not you. And I didn't feel like doing anything else".

So be it. But that little experience was echoed in a few places. Not anywhere in Texas, though. Honest!!!

Interesting topic!
Elisabeth

For the record, even in other places, that negativity is still overall the exception, not the norm. Still...

@EW & my original comments...

...unless indroduced via other means and I know to the contrary...

...I'm likely to take a pass on touring gals from certain geographies...frankly we are just friendlier down here & I don't want to deal with the attitude

@EW & my original comments...

...unless indroduced via other means and I know to the contrary...

...I'm likely to take a pass on touring gals from certain geographies...frankly we are just friendlier down here & I don't want to deal with the attitude Originally Posted by atlcomedy

Oh, I completely agree. Although I don't like stereotypes, they tend to be stereotypes because of a reason.

Hugs,
Elisabeth

I am a well traveled hobbyist and I could not agree more with you that there are differences by region. At times these differences are big. There are differences in attitude as well as services provided and average fees. After a while you can generally learn what to expect from a provider based on geography. People are different so there always will be an exception but for the most part you can categorize by region.

Without doubt the Texas Ladies are the best with Austin being my favorite. Here it is more like an intimate date than an impersonal encounter. The services are better and the menu is more robust ( as are the ladies). Providing seems to be more acceptable here. The NE is more expensive, impersonal, and you walk away feeling as though you should have gotten more. SF has a number of providers and they are generally good but not as hot looking as Tx. Denver has a good selection of ladies with personality and seem to be friendly and able. Florida is hit or miss. Some good lookers and services similar to TX but the menu is scaled down and the ladies are a bit less personable. Ohio and the mid country (except Chicago) do not have as many providers and my experiences have been random from best ever to what a rip off. DC and mid Atlantic you have a better chance of being scammed. The typical lady brings an attitude. Vegas is expensive and Phoenix is hit or miss. The PNW has a good service but the ladies are not as friendly as TX. All in all you must do your homework in any region but here again the reviews have regional differences. In many areas a covered bj is the norm while a bbbj is the TX way. Kissing varies too. In the NE it is not as common.

Favorite places? I have been lucky in TX, SC, FL, SF and OR. In these areas you also have a 50% chance of going home with a dancer. Anywhere else I invite one of my ATFs to join me.

"I know that you were close to an orgasm but it's about me. Not you. .. Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

EW your comment above hit home on what I was wondering about, still you added a twist that I was not thinking about, and that is if your date is a local or not...humm

Without doubt the Texas Ladies are the best with Austin being my favorite. Here it is more like an intimate date than an impersonal encounter. The services are better and the menu is more robust ( as are the ladies). Originally Posted by Lil'Whiskey

I will say I do not travel a lot. But reading reviews in TX about providers from Upstate NY(Rochester). I was thinking a good provider is a good providers. No matter where you found her. The quote dos sound like all providers that I know on eccie in Rochester NY. I hope more post to this thread. I may have something to learn. Now I feel lucky to live where I do.

I honestly do not know about providers being differant...I guess you will get some good ones, and some bad ones where ever you go. But...I do know that the upbringing and the thinking is differant from region to region, which causes providers to be differant. But how so? Sure beats me. I haven't been around a single provider since I jumped in with both feet almost a year ago.

What I can tell you is how I am...I really enjoy myself, I am a total pleaser, full menu, I am always excited before an encounter and have yet to be disappointed. I am in this for the fun and the thrill...once they are gone, then I am gone.

Now, does this differ then other girls in my region?

I used to live in Scottsdale---they are some friendly folks....lol!!

I have found in my travels around the US that the people in the pacific northwest are not quite as friendly as in the south....{they are a little more reserved and not as trustworthy}...THIS IS JUST IMHO!!

Interesting. Maybe some one can set up a table.