Safety protocol for both parties when doing outcall

So I've been around the hobby for many years but have never had outcall to my house.

There are many providers that I would not in a second hesitate to tell to come on over to my place but my question is, what about provider I have not met yet?

Anyone have providers they have not met yet to their place for outcall? Hows that work? What id the proper protocol to make sure it is cool? I'm sure the provider is just as concerned so i'm not quite sure how it works best.

I use to have providers visit for outcall all the time. Just well reviewed and more professional ladies. It still ended up being issues. Would much rather do incall these days. I dont like hookers just showing up to say hello anymore.

I use to have providers visit for outcall all the time. Just well reviewed and more professional ladies. It still ended up being issues. Would much rather do incall these days. I dont like hookers just showing up to say hello anymore. Originally Posted by BSer

Anyone who "shows up to just say hello" is not someone who takes safety and discretion seriously.
Yours or her own.

I have been to many gentlemen's homes for first time meetings, I dress inconspicuously unless they ask for something more "slutty", show up when I say I will and leave when our time is over.

I don't repeat until I'm asked to again, simple enough.

To the OP.
You just want to research any potential "date" to be sure she conducts herself the way she should in your home and with your info.

Here is my take as BSer said he used to do it with well reviewed girls and had problems.
Do it if
The house you live in has nothing of value in it
The apt you reside at has nothing of value in it
Someone is home when you are not
The house has an alarm system
The apt has security
The girl who comes to the door is going to be the one you ordered
The bouncer stays in the car and you take down the license plate number
Willing to be scammed and up charged
Willing to be robbed
Have a gun and you are willing to use it
Can't find a nice looking girl with incall
if yes to all go for it
There are many stories of cash and dash and a lot more from guys who knew the girl well if you feel safe its your call. They all have a SO and money problems to me its not worth it.

So I've been around the hobby for many years but have never had outcall to my house.

There are many providers that I would not in a second hesitate to tell to come on over to my place but my question is, what about provider I have not met yet?

Anyone have providers they have not met yet to their place for outcall? Hows that work? What id the proper protocol to make sure it is cool? I'm sure the provider is just as concerned so i'm not quite sure how it works best. Originally Posted by sjomonty

Remember Murphy's law:

If anything can go wrong, it will go wrong.

Maybe making a set of keys for every girl was a bad idea

I did outcall for years back in my escort service days. I never just "showed" up at someone's house. Boy, times have changed.

My barn is always available, just watch out for those barn cats, and that very large rat snake as it slitters through the hay bales looking for mice.

So I'm hearing what I suspected, outcall to home only with well reviewed girls and only after a certain rapport has been developed. That all seemed like common sense to me but I was just checking to make sure I wasnt missing anything. Thanks for the advice all.

I just have eaglehorse stand outside. No one fucks wit me

Roger FFH, I'll make sure nobody will fuck you!

The smart lady never touches anything inside a clients house except the client.

Much more money to be made from future outcalls than theft.

So I'm hearing what I suspected, outcall to home only with well reviewed girls and only after a certain rapport has been developed. Originally Posted by sjomonty

Actually, I think you're hearing only what you were expecting to hear....instead of hearing what's actually being said.

To be clear - what's being said is, it's a BAD idea. Even with 'well reviewed girls and only after a certain rapport has been developed', it remains a BAD idea.

You cannot have a girl unlearn your address, what's inside your house, etc., Once she's been there, she knows that info. If her situation changes....that info is still in her head.

If you're an absolute superstar at picking girls, plus you're lucky, you might have a 90%(!!!!) success rate...you're still fucking up 10% of the time! If you attach any value to your privacy or house, just don't do it.

C.

P.S. As an interesting example - there is currently a provider who has been reviewed multiple times in the last few months. Seen by way over a dozen guys here. In fact, I've seen her, and will again - she fucking rocks. (I'll be vague, because I don't want to open that can of worms).

There's an interesting backstory, though. A little while back, she moved out of her old place. She's cool as hell, and we were talking about the real story. It turns out the people who were her 'roommates' were breaking into strangers' houses and taking a bunch of their shit. Then it got weird - as it always does - and she moved out.

She's well-reviewed, hot, and still active in the game. However - if one day things go sideways for her again...I would NOT want her to know my address, real name, etc.,

No, I'm hearing what was said.......but also good advice. We've all seen girls (and guys) go sideways in this business. That said, advice worth considering.

When I lived in Sacramento, I almost always had the laides come to my house. Being a bachelor, there wasn't much of value in the house - nobody wanted a 53" rear projection TV when the flat screens were out or a desktop computer that was a year old. I'm also very well armed, so I never worried about it.

Not sure if any of you are familiar with myredbook.com, the site that got shut down last summer. It had a very detailed review system and an active community that met a couple times a year (guys and girls). I did my research and cross referenced other sites for reviews such as TER using the data on redbook. I was also in contact with members of the RB community and exchanged information on a regular basis.

I took a lot of chances and probably got really, really lucky. I even let one girl live at my house for about three weeks while I was out of town, but I'd known her for a few years at that point. Also, I had angeleyes1397 (see my "unicorn" pics in the thread about Amanda) live with me for a few weeks when she needed a place to stay until she could move into her new apartment.

Only once did I have a provider show up unannounced. She knocked on my door one night after I hadn't seen her for a few years because she didn't have my number anymore. It was actually a great surprise and I'm still friends with her to this day. She has a husband, a good job and an overall great life now.

That being said, this same girl told me she always preferred outcalls to incalls because she considered them less dangerous. What guy wants to do something stupid in his own house? And, from her perspective, why do something stupid in a guy's house because it was worth more to her to keep the client than lose him over something stupid.

The bottom line for me is that things seemed a bit different out there and I didn't worry about it at all. Here in Pittsburgh, I'd be more hesitant until I knew someone very well.