OK I was living in Machakos about a year ago and this girl just came and stayed. We since moved to Nairobi. I want her to go, but don't know how to get her gone. She doesn't have a job and will be crushed if I leave. She since moved her 10 yr old daughter in: she will be crushed too if I leave. The mom (34) hasn't done anything wrong. She's been loyal and is a good woman. I just want my freedom.
Any advice?
BTW guys, "come and stay" arrangements are common in Kenya. So be careful if you see a girl more than a cpl times.