Why do you ECCIE?

While I started on bigdoggie back in the day I've been hobbying for quite awhile. For a long time I tended to lurk and used TER.

I was traveling a lot overseas so ISG was my primary outlet. But then I found myself primarily in the US and facing the TER rates and rules for DC. Rates were high and inside info was low.

Then I moved west and found ECCIE. It was very different and I purchased a LPA and lurked for awhile. However once I started travelling to Dallas it all changed.

While I had learned previously to be discreet the Dallas community was surprisingly open. While I had never before learned the importance of a hobby phone or P411 I was taught here how important it is to have them (by a retired Dallas provider no less), which saved my ass at least once already.

So at some point I decided to emerge and post comments and reviews despite having a lifetime sub. I just found the community here (for better or worse) too lively not to comment. And in regards to reviews, I have not a single NO. That isn't because I am a review mill like some, but rather because this board has helped me research and avoid bad sessions, so I felt the need to give back.

So that's my story.

With that said, what brought the rest of you here? What are the PROs and CONs of being here? Why did you stay and post to ultimately become part of our community?

It beats picking my nose.

I stay for the rare dime-ass spinner that shows up in the Fort Worth area. Also, an incredible dime that's worth going to Dallas for.

Their don't have to be many cons if you just browse the Welcome Wagon and Encounter Reports, do research, then provide your encounter. Rise and repeat.

I got into the hobby a little over four years ago. I did so after having found TER a couple of years before and realizing that people actually do this and make arrangements online. I found TER a bit constraining to use, and also got a P411 account to make the verification process easier. Not long after that I realized that ECCIE was the best place to read provider reviews, at least in this area. Since then it's been ECCIE to vet the providers I want to see by reading reviews and P411 for the providers to vet me. With the new changes coming to P411 next year I suppose I will have to modify this approach, but reading reviews here will still be a big part of the process.

Because the chicks at the bar get all pissy when I ask them to show me how much of my dick they can swallow and ask if they are ok with me cumming in their mouth.

Fuckin uptight real world bitches. It saves me a bunch of time weeding out the prudes in my quest for sexual satisfaction.


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Because the news media sucks and this is the real life drama of getting laid. How can you beat it for the reading and for finding a few rare gems who have their act together, can actually write a sentence, speak coherently and love to spend a few hours with a fun respectful decent guy. Rare find but not hard to spot among all the crazy drama.

After I divorced around 2008 a friend told me about the Ft Worth Weekly massaage ads. I decided to blow out the soot and did that for awhile. I wanted nothing to do with relationships. One day a massage girl told me about eccie and it opened up a whole new world. I love pussy and have the free time so it meshed perfectly with my lifestyle.

After a bad experience with a BSC rub and tug chick from the Mid Cities (Miranda), I figured there had to be a way to get info on some of these gals. Been here ever since !

For me, eccie allows me to research services. Before I buy any product or service, I do my research. I enjoy finding good values, and eccie allows me to make sure I find the value I'm looking for.

It's just a better way to get laid. The process is clear, concise, and serves a purpose for both sides. There are no lingering relationship issues that you're likely to encounter after you bang a RL woman more than once.

I just wish I could afford to hobby more...like, way more.

Being somewhat of a newbie to the hobby in Dallas (less than a year), I found eccie to be the most informative site for provider reviews. I really enjoy the intel and feedback you guys provide a get a kick out of the commentary as well. It took me awhile to get premium access (I’m cheap and don’t want to pay for subscriptions), so I really got into posting my encounters once eccie returned in June. I can’t get out as often as a lot of you, but will gladly share the benefit of my experiences going forward, just as you brothers have guided me.

For most guys here in their 40's- 80's who look more like George Castanza or Rodney Dangerfield as opposed to George Clooney or Rodney Carrington.

Civie

Dinner - $50-$150 - Awkward conversation, silence, wondering how the night will end listening/laughing/feigning interest in her stories of her exes, kids, boss, etc.
Movie - $16-$25 - NO talking, just watching movie. Again, wondering why she talked you into the latest awful romantic comedy.
Movie Snacks - $30-$50 - Bitch can pack it away, can't she?
Possible drinks afterwards - $20-$100
Gas driving to all these places - Varies
Possibly buying new nice shirt - maybe

Depending on if must repeat 2 or more times before getting any we all no there's no guarantee. And lord help if you must do this more than one time a week with different women.

ECCIE - depending on gal, $100-$300 or $50-$100 if you hit up the end of month rent week specials or ISO Bar Fly girls who respond to every ISO slumming the bottom of the ECCIE Barrell- Sure Thing and a different flavor every other day. Adrenaline rush on the hunt and hoping you're not jumped by a pimp or pinched by LE. No need to buy new shirt. I can look homeless and disheveled as long as I am clean.

Prostitution is the same in either scenario. We all pay for it one way or another.

It’s a part of me.

I landed her after ASPD went down. It's been fun and I've had some wonderful experiences. I'm still her because I'm just a horndog and it's easy to find what I want. There's no other place like eccie for the DFW guys.

When I separated 8yrs ago, I found myself on POF looking for NSA hook ups. One of the gents I met enjoyed hearing about my sex-capades, but then suggested maybe I start providing and to join eccie (since I was already meeting strangers 3-4 times a week). This way, I get more benefit$ from my friends with benefit, plus I'd be able to screen to make sure the guy was safe.

I stay because I find that it's a great way to meet a variety of truly wonderful men that I probably wouldn't get an opportunity to meet in the RW. I've had very few negative experiences in this hobby of mine, and part of that is due to eccie.