Mental vs. Physical

Ladies: Do you actively try to engage a clients mind during a session? I've found that mechanical encounters (even with the hottest ladies) leave me feeling a bit blah afterwards. Not right afterwards... but maybe the day after.

A recent session (shout out to Kinky Little Nikki) was so amazing that it made me wonder if there were any other ladies that had this same sort of skill.

Of course physical attraction is important, but I'm curious about the "mind fuck". Is that skill as rare as I think it is?

I'll see a woman once if she looks good. I'll see her over and over again if she engages with me and makes me feel like i'm the only thing thats on her mind in that moment. Or something along those lines, couldnt really think of the right words. I've seen women that were great at sex but didnt go back because i was just a pay check to them. Basically, they have to make me feel good physically and mentally if they want me to come back for return visits.