Rough Play

I'm finding that more and more, I like rough play. Hair pulling, choking, ass slapping, even some fighting. Still new to the hobby. Just wondering how to find people with similar interests :-)

Don't know why but I have been thinking about this lately. I could really get into giving a good Face Fucking. Like in a Porno. A little rough....Spit, gagging and all the slobber.

I'm finding that more and more, I like rough play. Hair pulling, choking, ass slapping, even some fighting. Still new to the hobby. Just wondering how to find people with similar interests :-) Originally Posted by BeccaFreckles

hell yeah !
cmon over, ill beat the shit outta ya'
and for a slight upcharge, ill even run over you in the driveway .
jk

OMG. My Ex-Wife!

Advertising an interest in rough play can be tricky, awkward, and downright dangerous. I used to roll my eyes whenever people on ASPD told me that until the day a very nice gentleman asked very politely to handcuff me to his fancy downtown hotel room toilet and use me as such. I politely turned down the appointment, and judging from his reference history he would have been sweet if I declined in person, but that would have ruined the whole vibe of the appointment. That was a soft way to learn a lesson.

Anywho, now I just wait to feel out a gentleman in person. It's easy to tell when he wants to pin you down, pull your hair, spank you, etc. Picking up on those cues and clearly asking for what you want keeps things copacetic.

Advertising an interest in rough play can be tricky.

Anywho, now I just wait to feel out a gentleman in person. It's easy to tell when he wants to pin you down, pull your hair, spank you, etc. Picking up on those cues and clearly asking for what you want keeps things copacetic. Originally Posted by JennsLolli

+1

I am into that and I think I am quite good at being the dominant type.. but I am NOT into BDSM. I get no pleasure handcuffing you or degrading you..

I think just about all women like rough play during sex. since yall like to 'feel' like a woman and have a man in charge fuking you silly!

all I know is when I bang my Sugar Baby, her pussy gets that silky wetness and then gushes when I pull her hair and choke her...

Ralphey Boy. That's exactly right. I really have no interest in hurting or degrading anyone. Don't want to tie anyone up either.

Unless they ask real nine and then I would consider it.

I like a woman to take control too.

I'm jus saying a good Slobberknocking Face Fuck really appeals to me.

Hell. Any providers that can accommodate that is more than welcome to PM me and I WILL most definitely part with some hard earned $.

i kind of wish i was more of this type of guy. when it comes to BCD stuff i'm really meek and i find myself thinking sometimes why i can't act more like the "alpha male" type. i guess i mean just taking charge of the situation, lol. i usually just kind of let it roll and see how things turn out.

I miss tossing TheOne around....she got a kick out of it. You could pick her up with one hand and toss her on the bed...she thought that was funny.

BeccaFreckles...You started this conversation.

What do you think?

I never knew I was into it and I never knew how dominant I could be until I started dating girls that for some reason became totally submissive to me despite never having experimented much like that before. They just trusted me completely and wanted me to take it further and further. We're talking seriously degrading and painful stuff.

At first I thought it was weird, and it took me a while to warm up to it. A couple of girls that had been into that before said that they could never find any guys that would take it as far as they wanted, I was the only guy that wasn't afraid to do what they had fantasized about. And I came up with plenty of ideas of my own, lol. I guess I'm just a sick freak.

Now I don't think I could date anyone "vanilla". That said it has really surprised me just how many girls are into this, and how extreme they are. At least with a guy they trust.

In the hobby I've never done any non-vanilla stuff though.

hell yeah !
cmon over, ill beat the shit outta ya'
and for a slight upcharge, ill even run over you in the driveway .
jk Originally Posted by knotty man

And I thought you were more of a lover, knotty....

I'm finding that more and more, I like rough play. Hair pulling, choking, ass slapping, even some fighting. Still new to the hobby. Just wondering how to find people with similar interests :-) Originally Posted by BeccaFreckles

I tried to send you a PM, but your inbox is full.

A few years back I went out with this girl that made a lot of money being a switch and providing cookie cutter cliche S&M scenes... I generally don't even talk about S&M with providers as they just start talking about disengaged facsimile stuff.. It is very difficult to hook up with a psychologically complementary sub anywhere ( One way to look at this is two limbic systems acting out shit tthe rest of the mind does not even know about or understand, but exquisite levels of intoxicating states can be reached that can't really be reached any other way). Its very difficult to match up. The limited, transactional nature of the hobby distorts the power interactions.. it just does not seem to me that the deep connections for "inside out" S&M play will develop.in the hobby world. I was a member of this organization in DC for over 20 years, http://www.br.org/.. the only time I recall "providers" being around was to augment scenes.