hospitality: provider vs. civvie

If providers had the hospitality of most civvies I've seen, they would be out of business. When visiting civvies, I have had to wait an hour while they do laundry, check their e-mail, finish cooking, etc. Then some of them have a bigger list of DONT'S than most BP escorts. Don't even get me started about if their kids are home. They will lock the kids out of the room, then every 30 seconds the kids bang on the door. There was one or two instances where the lady's kids actually broke the doorknob off and barged in. Other times, a civvie's family members/friends will randomly knock on the door and I have to wait 30 minutes to an hour for them to leave. Sometimes, I end up doing nothing and leave. Maybe that's why we pay so much for professionals.