Reading ads

I want to know why it’s so hard for guys to read full ads. I mean y’all would save us both the hassle of not trying to waste each other’s time.
Do some of you like to get ignored or like to get rude responses all because most don’t read. I just don’t get it. I mean it also happens during visits. All because y’all don’t read reviews and ads. I’ve had visits to where guys say they read my ad and in all reality they didn’t. Like bringing alcohol to my place. Is a big nono for me. And then taking advantage of time and still doing things that I specifically have an issue with. And then to top it off is trying to get me to take pictures when I clearly don’t for anyone. All so you can share on reviews.
Treetop78759's Avatar
You should do a better job of screening versus blaming the dudes for your lack of diligence.
Lol I do screen. If the guys would read and look to see what I require. Then that saves the hassle. Like I require references so if you don’t have them then don’t waste our times and contact me.
You will ALWAYS have these issues. Just resign to the fact that they will never go away and be prepared to say NO or tell them to leave.
Lester Krinklesac's Avatar
Maybe they read them, but just don’t care.
A very high percentage of the reviews on here are fake or contain ROS activities that the reviewer wishes happened. For that reason I take reviews here about as seriously as the fortune in a fortune cookie.


Similarly, a lot of bios on here are for providers that have retired, changed names, changed locations, etc. They tend to be just as accurate as the reviews.


You're on a web site that is more known for drama and falsehoods than accuracy and dependability - and that goes for both genders!


You might try web sites where you have more control over your "messaging", like tryst.link or switter.at.


Good luck!
TemptationTammie's Avatar
I think we all have the issue with guys not reading ads.
I try to keep my ads brief so that they are easy to read.
And I say to add recent references as well as north Austin and hours of availability. But still guys ask what area I'm in and don't send references. I reply asking for references and sometimes I get them, sometimes I don't. I don't live on the site and work full time so may not reply for a couple of hours up to a day to the first pm. If references were given first time I could check references before answering.
Sometimes screening can take days if we are only on here once or twice a day and because some providers can't be bothered to respond to the ladies.