Any recommendations on a lady or ladies that will offer gfe experience and also a dominatrix type experience. Many list open minded but they really aren't and just want to charge more for something they put no effort into. Basically from past experiences it seems like that open minded in the description means that they leave the door open and then when you ask the rate is higher because they want to take advantage of you. Let's be honest... is their much more effort involved in a hj then there is in slapping someone's balls?? If you say yes you are absolutely lying through your teeth... that always confused me....
Most true dominatrixs wont offer gfe so seeing a dominatrix doesn't solve the problem 100% haha.
So if anyone may have any recommendations on ladies that will offer a mixed experience with some effort I would appreciate the feedback. My experiences with escorts that were fetish friendly or open minded have not been great and am hoping someone on here can help.
Thank you.
- Sissyslavejack
- 08-26-2019, 01:14 PM
- sexymaid_69
- 08-26-2019, 03:07 PM
Providing a true dominatrix experience requires a completely different mindset than that of an average date.
That's why most providers you've sought out didn't meet up with your expectations.
And yes, most providers will justify an added fee to accommodate your request simply because there is a great bit of mental and physical work involved that's not usually called upon for the average date.
I've generally heard that providers who claim to be "switch" don't usually provide a great dominating experience simply because they're used to catering to your desires and wants and it's not easy to change up the mindset.
Unless a lady reserves that part of herself for her "subs" and only them it's very hard not to blue the lines of what is going on.
You've taken the first steps to finding what you want but might I suggest that you also reach out to the Pittsburgh dungeon groups and inquire there.
TRUE Dominatrix services are generally legal and therefore the real ones can advertise openly.
( No real penetrating sex is involved)
One quick Google search for a Pittsburgh dominatrix brought up this lovely lady, I imagine you can find more the same way.https://www.pghcitypaper.com/pittsbu...nt?oid=1982547
That's why most providers you've sought out didn't meet up with your expectations.
And yes, most providers will justify an added fee to accommodate your request simply because there is a great bit of mental and physical work involved that's not usually called upon for the average date.
I've generally heard that providers who claim to be "switch" don't usually provide a great dominating experience simply because they're used to catering to your desires and wants and it's not easy to change up the mindset.
Unless a lady reserves that part of herself for her "subs" and only them it's very hard not to blue the lines of what is going on.
You've taken the first steps to finding what you want but might I suggest that you also reach out to the Pittsburgh dungeon groups and inquire there.
TRUE Dominatrix services are generally legal and therefore the real ones can advertise openly.
( No real penetrating sex is involved)
One quick Google search for a Pittsburgh dominatrix brought up this lovely lady, I imagine you can find more the same way.https://www.pghcitypaper.com/pittsbu...nt?oid=1982547
- Sissyslavejack
- 08-26-2019, 05:14 PM
Yes I have tried to connect with Aiden... as I stated She is a Pro domme and wouldn't offer a gfe mixed type experience. I have actually used sites like fetlife and and collarspace and have posted ads... but haven't had any luck... most of the time the real dominatrixs that live the lifestyle will not mix the gfe experience.
My expectations aren't that an escort turns into a seasoned Dominatrix... I just want one that will do some fun things with me like busting my balls and slapping my face and things like that.
My expectations aren't that an escort turns into a seasoned Dominatrix... I just want one that will do some fun things with me like busting my balls and slapping my face and things like that.
- Lexxxy
- 08-26-2019, 08:39 PM
sensual Domme is my specialty 
- bigdickdaddydom
- 08-28-2019, 09:52 PM
Lexxxy. Athena.
- Lena Duvall
- 09-28-2019, 06:35 AM
Yes, there's a huge skill and labor difference when it comes to cock and ball torture versus giving a hand job. I'm not minimizing the effort required by companions who don't offer kink services. That said, CBT can be as varied as slapping balls as you mentioned, but it can also look like urethral sounding.
I'm saying this with kindness, but one get's from an experience what they put into it which might explain your results thus far. If you want someone that is competent and risk-aware to perform extreme or even milder Dominant services, a noteworthy investment of research time and/or money is required.
Some do use "kink friendly" as just a buzzword. Kinky GFE companions who are well-versed will be more thorough in conveying what their skills, preferences, and limits are. And it's likely that their passion and expertise will be apparent when looking at their dungeon space, toy collection, wardrobe and other signifiers.
I'm saying this with kindness, but one get's from an experience what they put into it which might explain your results thus far. If you want someone that is competent and risk-aware to perform extreme or even milder Dominant services, a noteworthy investment of research time and/or money is required.
Some do use "kink friendly" as just a buzzword. Kinky GFE companions who are well-versed will be more thorough in conveying what their skills, preferences, and limits are. And it's likely that their passion and expertise will be apparent when looking at their dungeon space, toy collection, wardrobe and other signifiers.
- Do_me_doggy69
- 10-13-2019, 12:18 PM
Any recommendations on a lady or ladies that will offer gfe experience and also a dominatrix type experience. Many list open minded but they really aren't and just want to charge more for something they put no effort into. Basically from past experiences it seems like that open minded in the description means that they leave the door open and then when you ask the rate is higher because they want to take advantage of you. Let's be honest... is their much more effort involved in a hj then there is in slapping someone's balls?? If you say yes you are absolutely lying through your teeth... that always confused me....You are looking for someone who can SWITCH the roles. Read over my encounter reports as I will be visiting Pittsburgh soon and I would love nothing more than to be the treat you need before Halloween.
Most true dominatrixs wont offer gfe so seeing a dominatrix doesn't solve the problem 100% haha.
So if anyone may have any recommendations on ladies that will offer a mixed experience with some effort I would appreciate the feedback. My experiences with escorts that were fetish friendly or open minded have not been great and am hoping someone on here can help.
Thank you. Originally Posted by Sissyslavejack
I bring a variety of toys when traveling... they take up half of my suitcase. From whips, paddles, clamps, electro shock, a spider web to name a few.
- wesmantooth
- 10-15-2019, 08:23 AM
Suzy (Classy Blonde) in Muhall area will do some stuff, but I am pretty sure you have to give her a heads up before hand so she knows what u want.