The Joy of Fantasy.....

No matter how pleasant and fulfilling your daily life is sometimes you need to escape from your role as responsible adult, dutiful worker, or dedicated family member. The more stressful that role is, the further it is from your own deepest impulses, the more you need to escape from the limitations of everyday life. Some people use alcohol, drugs, or gambling to transcend their ordinary lives, but these activities generally prove to be both destructive and unsatisfying. But the escape provided by a rich fantasy life can be constructive and extraordinarily fulfilling. Instead of destroying true intimacy, shared fantasy increases it. Instead of harming the body, sexual release helps it. Instead of stifling the needs of your true self, fantasy allows you to express and realize your deepest needs and in the process, fantasy brings forth a new stronger reality....................... ......

Enjoy life as it is too short not to have fun.....................

+1 for sure. I am trying to adjust to being a father on top of the husband and work roles I have, and it feels like it is wearing me out. I love that you ladies are out there to provide a healthy release for us guys.

Real Life has its good times, but for me escaping from RL is often an escape that I crave and I must have in order to deal with RL. Setting aside time for a fantasy is difficult and impractical at times as well, but without that escape from reality, reality would consume me to the point of insanity.

To quote Freddy Mercury: "...and escape from reality..." Let the Fantasy continue!

I'm a single dad now and miss the sex life I had with my x but I'm also really careful about who I bring into my child's life. This hobby really intrest me because it's the best of both worlds . You just have adult time . You can only stand so much barny without losing your mind lol !

jsparrow your signature line are words to live by thanks:

Life is not a journey to the grave
With the intention of arriving safely
In a pretty, well-preserved, undamaged body

But rather to skid in broadside
A drink in one hand, chocolate in the other
Delicious sex in one’s memory
Thoroughly used up
Totally worn out
And loudly proclaiming:

WOW!! What a ride.

[QUOTE=Mskoda You can only stand so much barny without losing your mind lol ![/QUOTE]

Or Bubble Guppies! Lmao! Bubble, bubble, bubble; Bubble, bubble gUPPyS! You would think i'd know the 6 guppy kids and guppy puppys names! HAHAhahaHA!

Thank gooosh they don't have Tella Tubbys anymore!

jsparrow your signature line are words to live by thanks:

Life is not a journey to the grave
With the intention of arriving safely
In a pretty, well-preserved, undamaged body

But rather to skid in broadside
A drink in one hand, chocolate in the other
Delicious sex in one’s memory
Thoroughly used up
Totally worn out
And loudly proclaiming:

WOW!! What a ride. Originally Posted by cumalot

I have heard this saying before! Fabulous! Like it! Some may live life in fear that something bad is about to happen, but I choose to live alive like something amazing is about to happen! wooHoo!

ms athena: so true, so many people turn to the awful drugs and/or alcohol for their release from life's stressors and the end result is always negative.
there are many more ways to safely release stress w/o destroying your life on a dead end road.

So true Ms. A.
Over the years I have tried many types of relief from problems and stress and alcohol just leaves you with a hangover and usually more problems , DUI, fights, wrecks , etc.
Drugs wind you up then you have to come down and leave you depressed.
Sexual release be it masterbation or sex with a partner usually leaves us with a smile on our faces and a very relaxed feeling.
Once you understand to enjoy the moment with a beautiful woman it's all about stopping and smelling the roses.
From the scent of the woman , the feel of the hugs, to the softness of a good kiss, to the ecstasy of orgasm there is no better way to relax and escape all of your problems!!

Aaah, yes! Fantasy has sure been in the front runner for me! I have so much to learn, and so much playing to do! Sometimes I pick a character from one of my fantasies and bask in the bliss of stillness! I get so hot and bothered, I feel that I might CUM all over the place until someone demands my attention! I have started with a cpl awesome reads and cant get through a few pages without my mind zoning in to another untamed, erotic imagery!

Dont worry though, the side walks are safe! Hehehe! I make sure I am in a safe seated, or lying down position! (knees slightly limp to each side of coarse!)

I love fantasy and roleplay! I get to be whoever I want to be or whoever you want me to be. Very therapeutic

I think we all seek and need a break from our RL which is what the hobby is ALL about. Admitting we have a need, and fulfilling that need make us all a better person............
Life is to short not to enjoy and fulfill yourself. Have fun! Yum!

I tend to find myself "living the Dallas persona" in my RL more and more each day!
I enjoy who i am and find that life is so much more interesting that way....lol!

{I get to travel the US/make money/live well/and have naughty fun! That is the American dream right?? lol}