?? about $ for FBSM vs FS.

I'm still fairly young in the hobby, but have seen a few lovely ladies. And the pickings here in Dallas seem to keep getting better and better. So my question is this. I understand providers have set prices, and I am not one to haggle over that aspect. But is there a price difference for seeing a woman that is FS but only wanting a FBSM with a L1 and L2, i.e. do the providers have a different price scale for ONLY FBSM compared to FS?? (lame questionI know, but just curious)

Depends on the provider. Some will have the same price as you are paying for that time. But its never a bad thing to just ask if there is a difference if you only want FBSM. But not all FS girls offer FBSM. My personal recommendation is if you want a FBSM massage, find someone that specializes in it because you'll probably have a better experience than with someone that is just doing because you want that.

Do your research. Remember you are compensating for her time and not her menu.

Yeah, I figured as much. Far be it for me to haggle a price down, since the ladies do set the standard and all. I was just curious since some ladies have certain prices for different things they perform. Much appreciation gents.

From the perspective of an FBSM only provider, I don't provide GFE for any number of reasons. My rates are lower than most GFE providers because, in my estimation, they assume more risk and so should certainly have a higher rate scale. I agree with the earlier poster that you're compensating the lady for her time and not her menu.

"you're compensating the lady for her time and not her menu"

Let's get real...then why do some providers have "+100 for greek" or "+50 for GFE" in their donation section? One particular lady I recently noticed (who is SMOKING HOOOOTTT by the way) advertises an amazing +150 on her hourly rate for MSOG...I'd have seen her a half dozen times already if not for that!!

I understand that this is all fantasy and we make donations for time only, whatever else happens is between consenting adults blah blah blah, but saying the compensation is not equivalent to the menu is just not reality for many providers.

Support your favorite local flat-rate/all-inclusive provider!!!! With respect, of course, to her personal limitations.

oh...and NEVER haggle over donation or menu. Her rate is her rate and her activities are what they are... Just do your research and know what her menu consists of beforehand.

+1 here.

I'm not opposed to the idea of an ala carte menu. In fact, I might be more inclined to favor being able to exercise some control over the costs for the activities that I prefer.

But if you're offering ala carte, you're not working on the other basis.

I'm not going to quibble with the flat-rate providers either.

But don't call it one thing while the reality is you are doing another.

And guys, frankly, I'm getting tired of those of you who parrot out these lines as if you're going to look good for the providers by doing it. I don't buy that game and it's a reflection on the size of your balls. Call it like it is. There are enough girls who don't deal with that kind of pandering, and the quality ones do not, that it's not necessary.

And yeah, don't haggle. But don't be afraid to respectfully negotiate within reason. Sometimes if you're a little short on hobby funds a girl is willing to take a little less for 45 min versus a full hour, and many do offer reduced multi-hour rates. I'm not cool with being a cheapskate, but you can deal with people with respect and dignity. But be willing to compromise something on your end as well.

"you're compensating the lady for her time and not her menu"

Let's get real...then why do some providers have "+100 for greek" or "+50 for GFE" in their donation section? One particular lady I recently noticed (who is SMOKING HOOOOTTT by the way) advertises an amazing +150 on her hourly rate for MSOG...I'd have seen her a half dozen times already if not for that!!

I understand that this is all fantasy and we make donations for time only, whatever else happens is between consenting adults blah blah blah, but saying the compensation is not equivalent to the menu is just not reality for many providers.

Support your favorite local flat-rate/all-inclusive provider!!!! With respect, of course, to her personal limitations. Originally Posted by DFWhobbyguy

I have different prices posted on my showcase for gfe and fbsm. I refer clients to check there and avoid discussing $$ for obvious reasons.

EXACTLY THN. I see some that do have multiple rates for certain activities. I was just curious if it was common practice or not. And the ladies I've seen have gotten a generous gift in return. I thinking haggling is like going to a swap meet, and this isn't the right place for that.

Do your research. Remember you are compensating for her time and not her menu. Originally Posted by pyramider

I suggest you look at provider's menus and see that virtually ALL providers that do full service charge more than LMT or Bodyrub girls. Heck, you can get a great massage for $60.00 per hour...
I only wish what you said was true LOL

I have seen FS providers and only asked for L1/L2 many times. I've just paid their normal rate and had no regrets at all. And, of course, there are several ladies who have different rates for FBSM with L1/L2 versus FS. Of those, I would highly recommend the following ladies:

THN
Little Miss
Sweet Treat 69
Sassy Kassy
Latina Next Door
Bella Of FW

But where should she advertise?

If that idea of a FBSM ONLY forum were to happen, just what level would it top out at.

I'm from San Diego. They have a great site, scasp.com. They have seperate forums for FS and FBSM and I think it works out wonderfully.

You can also check her review and see if she has fbsm reviews and what the donation was.