Blow jobs

Everyone has their own personal style and techniques, but if you prefer deep throat and ff as opposed, to say, some long gentle cock worshiping- do you tell her what you like better or just let her do her thing?
Personally, if something isn't working or a guy likes it a certain way- I wanna be told, dammit! I wanna be trained in the art of sucking your cock before you leave!

That way I can take mental notes-- Jimmy likes some ff with deep throat and some hand action with lots of slobber!!!

Bobby likes deep throat ff'ing and not much else. You get the picture.

Dammit, you should have your bj made your way!!

Thoughts?

Worst BJ I ever got was a great one!

Climbing out of the puddle, and having to wipe the saliva off your ass before leaving

I've been letting her do her thing. Last time, she asked me explicitly do I like this, or this, or this as she switched out different techniques, and all I could muster was "yes" since there was but a trickle of blood flowing to the cognitive region.

One thing I've never been a fan of is technique that includes drooling and spitting. It's not a great visual for me.

I don't like FF. Doesn't get me off. Deep throat? I'm now John Holmes. LOL My preference is long gentle cock worshiping, especially when she knows how to edge me to the brink and keep me there for a long time. I don't usually tell her how to do it unless she asks. Like SL said, not sure I have ever had a bad BJ.

I love to watch a feel jr. disappear down a beautiful gals throat. If she can't actually swallow it, no gag, I prefer that she just go deep without reaching the gag point. I'm long enough that I love the sensation of feeling my member enter the throat. I've learned that not every gal who claims the ability to DT can REALLY DT! at least not on me. In fact, I've only met three who were not just good, but great. One is retired, one is in another city and one is my ATF. All three could/can take me all the way down then push deeper for every last centimeter. When a girl can take you like that, FF is a given and absolutely great.

And yes, I've had a bad BJ before. I tapped on a gals head once, she stopped and looked up at me as she took me out of her mouth. I then asked her, "Where's that button?"

She tilted her head slightly and asked, "What button?"

I said, "That button that folds back your teeth! You're about to scrap all the hide off my cock." Needless to say that was the end of that, but I was thankful.

Forgot something important for me, once you start don't stop! You have no idea how many times I'm just about there, and bam they stop and do eye contact or hj. Don't stop! Really want to learn, go watch Sparkling Jade or Shayla84. They should teach classes!

Taking class notes. "BJ built your way."

All of my best expperience have been those that include some open dialogue. Using words is a great start but touch, push, pull groan, grunt also work really well. I kinda get off on being able to talk openly, actuallly say the words out loud to a willing partner. I love the line in Porn when the the guy asks the woman "where's my cock" and she looks at the camera and says "in my ass" and he goes to pounding.

Improvasation with a new partner also returns unexpected results. Best to talk it out.

I think it's up to both people to make the most out of their time together. If it all feels good no need to say anything, but to get what you want sometimes ya gotta speak up. I guarantee if she hasn't tried the right "trick" on you, she has it in her arsenal.

I think the lady also needs to ENJOY what she is doing for you gents to really like it as well.
I have never claimed to be able to DT because of gag reflex, however I do pay attention to the guy's responses when I'm down there.

Being perceptive is part of our job. And yes, you must either learn to love and worship cock or just be naturally good at it.
DT is ymmv on size for me. I will try my best but alas I'm no bottomless throat.

Just don't stop until I beg you to.. and then keep going any way.

Only thing: Watch those teeth !!!

Worst BJ I ever got was a great one! Originally Posted by Still Looking

You're lucky then. I've had very bad Bjs from civies mainly. One was so uneventful that I fell asleep during. I figured her mouth was just a warm peenie pocket. Then you have the one's who don't realize that yanking on your dry Johnson without any lubrication is not a pleasant experience.
When you'd rather finish yourself then let the frustration continue that's when you know it's a bad BJ.

If you have P411, guys can put information in their profile to explain what they like. I've noticed that while some women don't read that, those that do are very appreciative to learn what you like before the session. I don't know if I've ever had a really bad blowjob, but I have had a few outstanding ones that put others to shame. I'd like to find more of those and I think the common thing with the great ones are that the woman really enjoys it and has some great basic techniques but is able to switch things up based upon what I like.