I prefer JO Systems H2O Anal Lube for all my newbies as it has a mild numbing effect and then use H20 Lube for the long haul...........Enjoy!!!
Originally Posted by Ms. Athena
I LOVE the Jo Cherry flavor lube and it'll work for anal lube as well. After a bit, it'll get sticky but the flavor (tangerine dream is my absolute favorite in the world) is a small compromise for the nice flavor, price and size.
I will offer a slightly different view of anal lubes, though, then the above. Do not ever use ANYTHING with a numbing agent anywhere. Pain is our body's way of saying that something hurts. And with anal play, that's very important to know especially when you're starting out.
Go slow. Even slower. Use lube. Then MORE lube. Take it slow. You might take to anal play like God knows what. Or ... it might be too much. Pain is the indicator of how far to go.
Always. I don't like anal eaz (however you spell it) and other numbing agents. You completely miss the point while using them.
Just my thoughts, though. A LOT of people use numbing agents and swear by them.
Elisabeth
P.S. Liquid Silk is fantastic for anal lube. It just tastes TERRIBLE but it's some of the best for anal. So is Gun Lube and there are so many others.
Don't get something with heat, either. Again, some people like it. Gay men don't use it. I don't use anything with heat. It will feel like you're burning. Especially if you're virginal back there. Don't use that stuff. Just my cheap advice.