Just Curious...
Gentlemen: How important is it to you that your provider orgasms during your session?
Originally Posted by kelseysatx
I'm not a man. But I hope a woman's reply is welcomed.
As an older woman who has a good knowledge of what *some* men desire. Especially as one grows older. (yet still young at heart).
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I feel that many men (perhaps not all). Find it important and Feel good about themselves when they've brought the woman to the brink of pleasure and felt & tasted her release.
(Per my experience)-> Some have stated they don't feel like a real man unless they've made a woman cum. Because in their eyes. IF they can't get her to that point, then they feel they're not a good lover and doing something wrong. (which is not the case)
Perhaps some try too hard. But as nature would have it. Men, (the good ones out there) want to please a woman as best as they can.
And there are some wonderful unselfish men who seriously put women first and will fore-go their own release until the woman has been completely satisfied. That's sweet.
But, while it may be an important part of the intimacy between the two.
One needs to realize that less is more. Enjoy what's before you.
Take it slow, adore it. Savor it. Worship it. But don't try too hard.
The over zealous notion of (having) to get her to cum. Will at best.
Cause her to not enjoy it and perhaps she might lose sensation from the over abundant activity on her womanly parts.
Every woman is different. Most important thing a man can do is listen & follow her cues as to what pleases her. Don't munch down, suck so hard or twiddle it with your tongue unless the woman in your presence says that's what
she likes/wants. And key thing to keep in mind:
A man can truly only please a woman who WANTS to be pleased. Otherwise a man will try his best for nothing (a fake result). Sad but true.
Want to feel & taste her release? Feel her body tremble?
Then ask her what pleases her and you will be a king in her eyes and put her on cloud 9.
kelseysatx,
Your a gorgeous woman! I have a foot fetish and you not only have a beautiful body & face. But those toes!! Very sexy indeed.
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Welcome to the community.