Plain Jane or Dripping Diamonds

I have been wondering this for a bit from the guys, ladies join in if you would like....I love opinions! There was a previous thread similar to this and seemed like it was more complaining. When I post, my motto is, if you cannot say anything nice Move the Freak on LOL.

Some men say they really do not care about a providers appearance as long as she didnt look like she crawled out of a dumpster lol! So here is my question (think I am drawing it out..thats fun hehe)

Or...

Your classy lady dressed to impress...with all the sparkling jewelry and immaculate appearence. The lingerie that could make any man drool, garter belts and stocking that are smooth to the touch.

Me personally, I am going back to the days of carefully laced corsets...well i will let you see with all of that! In the mean time, I am very curious of others opinions of "the look of the pro"

Cute t-shirt, jeans but looks very nice ETC.

However, attitude will trump her particular attire every time with me.

First, more important than what you wear is good attitude and being super clean and fresh. Second, I want you to be comfortable whatever you're wearing. Last, my moods change. So, one day I may want one thing and another something entirely different.

With those caveats, my preferences, in order:

1. The sexy, casual look. Imagine you're going on a casual first date with someone you like and really want to make a good impression upon.

2. Lingerie.

3. The sexy, formal look (dripping diamonds). Imagine going to an expensive restaurant and the theater.

4. The slutty, stripper look.

5. The going to the grocery store look or hanging around the house watching TV look (Plain Jane or jeans and T-shirt look).

Also, I wouldn't necessarily believe it if a guy says he doesn't really care about appearance as long as she doesn't look like she's crawled out of the dumpster. Guys tell little white lies all the time when it comes to telling a woman about her appearance because he wants to be polite, make the best of a bad situation, doesn't want to upset her, is trying to be agreeable and friendly, etc. I think very few guys honestly don't care much how a provider looks and dresses when she meets him.

I like women just a little on the trashy side.
When they wear there cloths too tight and there hair is dyed.
They say opposites attract but I disagee, I want a woman just as trashy as me!

She can wear diamonds, on her cowboy hat....yee ha.

Me personally, I prefer for someone to create a fantasy and then I get to dress the part! If not, I still look for that eye pop look on a mans face.

I like women just a little on the trashy side.
When they wear there cloths too tight and there hair is dyed.
They say opposites attract but I disagee, I want a woman just as trashy as me!

She can wear diamonds, on her cowboy hat....yee ha. Originally Posted by yaddayadda

Alecia, you looked really cute with your hair up and wearing glasses. But with your height, the "OMG I'm not going to survive this" moment for me would be you dressed in a corset, garters, stockings, and high heels.

1. The sexy, casual look. Imagine you're going on a casual first date with someone you like and really want to make a good impression upon. Originally Posted by Shackleton

Agreed #1 for me too. That or a sundress.

Natural girlfriend cute tshirt bra-less and jeans, smells good

Nothing sexier than a pair of Levi's and a white cotton button up shirt on a gal. Nothing too fancy. And for God's sake, not trashy. There seems to be an over-abundance of trashy women in the world already. Damned if I want to pay to see another one.

Jewelry is sexy... especially waistlets / belly chains.



Does any gal have one?

If its a lady I'm already into, ie. she has a great personality, we click etc. then what she's wearing isn't as important as her attitude. Does she exude sensuosness, is she as comfortable in a pair of sweats as she is "dripping diamonds", attitude trumps the outfit. Still, if a lady gets dressed to the 9's, I'll notice and appreciate that she has made the effort to do so on my behalf.
That said, its basically how she wears it as opposed to what she wears. Certain items do enhance a ladies appearance though, like lingerie, thigh highs, sundresses, bikini's one size too small, dresses low cut in the front and high cut on the sides, high heels, open toe shoes (is it just me or are the pointy closed toe shoes a real turn off, like the ones you'd find a gnome or elf wearing?), and the coup de gras: the choker. Never seen one on a lady that wasn't sexy as hell.

To more directly answer your question Alecia, yes, both! Variety, mix it up, let the ensemble reflect the mood.

I usually always make a request for a certain look.

Sometimes I want the casual girlfriend at home look with nothing special.

Sometimes I want her dressed to the nines as if I just scored on the most beautiful woman at the dance.

I personally don't want to be met at the door by a provider in the nude unless it is a quickie session. Included in my illusion of passion is getting to undress a woman or watch her undress for me.

Lately I have gentlemen requesting that I keep on the clothes that I come to work in. Jeans and a top. It reminds me of that song, T Shirt and your panties on.

During the day, jeans and halter or T.
At night, cocktail dress, high heels.
Doesn't really matter because they will come off in minutes anyway.