What was it about Your First Provider??

Who was your FIRST provider? What was it about Her that made You Take the Plunge??


I'm always surprised when I get a call from a Honest to Goodness "Newbie".

*Because I get callers that Say they've never seen anyone before.. Only to find out later...They Have!! ???? It's frustrating and a waist of my time. What's so hard about that question?? Have you or Haven't you seen another provider?*
Sorry, I had to vent for a quick sec.

Back to it..

I have seen Several Newbies thru the years.
The times it's happened, I always ask What it was about me that made him decide to Make that Call...Come to the Dark Side...Take the Plunge....or, whatever!?!
You know? There are tons of woman to pick through..
What made Me his choice? His FIRST?

I always get the same 3 responses.

1. I've been in the business for 9 years. They have seen my ads for a long time and it made them feel more comfortable calling me.

2. My sweet ass.

3. My PHONE ETIQUETTE! I guess there are a lot of ladies that are rude to new callers? I can't hardly believe that. But, that's one of my top 3 for sure!
They appreciate how friendly and helpful I am with them over the phone.

Then I had them my plunger....and say...."TAKE IT!". Aaand, the rest is history!


So, who was yours? What was it about her?

~Kelly TNT

Imagine if you will OKC in the mid 1970's as you're driving up I35 in the south part of town. There is a little place on the west side where the dancers would "party" for $15 in the back room. Those were the days my friend. Unleaded at 65 cents and a candy bar cost 25 cents. I remember very little about that except the idea growing in my head at the time that the place was bound to be raided while I was in there. I can still smell the perfume the girl was using. It was strong stuff.

My first experience with a true escort was a couple of years later with an outcall service listed in the yellow pages. Yeah, I called services listed in the yellow pages back then. Sight unseen, no references, nothing. Was I dumb or just stupid?

It was as simple as a friend recommending a provider as a way to keep my sexual sanity. She was very sweet and understanding and gently introduced me to the hobby. I still have great appreciation for her saving my marriage.

The first time I didn't know I was seeing a provider. A cute girl that has been around this scene for a while and is still around was running a personal ad a few years ago on a dating site like match.com or matchmaker.com or something like that - not a provider ad, just a personal ad. When she came out to see me she was really into me and next thing you knew I thought I had found gold because within an unusually short time we were boinking like bunnies - what a great first date! Then she asked me for "gas money" because she had to drive so far, then said anytime that I wanted to see her again it was a sure thing as long as I could give her some "gas money" again. I still really didn't clue in to what she was talking about until she told me that she had a lot of other friends that I could see for the same arrangement and pointed me to a website that had their pictures as well as their rates. That's all it took and I've been walking the dark path ever since.

Two words.. MIA LOREN

The first time I didn't know I was seeing a provider. A cute girl that has been around this scene for a while and is still around was running a personal ad a few years ago on a dating site like match.com or matchmaker.com or something like that - not a provider ad, just a personal ad. When she came out to see me she was really into me and next thing you knew I thought I had found gold because within an unusually short time we were boinking like bunnies - what a great first date! Then she asked me for "gas money" because she had to drive so far, then said anytime that I wanted to see her again it was a sure thing as long as I could give her some "gas money" again. I still really didn't clue in to what she was talking about until she told me that she had a lot of other friends that I could see for the same arrangement and pointed me to a website that had their pictures as well as their rates. That's all it took and I've been walking the dark path ever since. Originally Posted by travelling_man

I have to say...as a provider, I'm glad you are in the Hobby!!
But, also as a provider...I'm thinking that was a Risky way of promoting herself. It could have turned out A Lot differently. Good thing for both of you..it turned out fine.

~Kelly TNT

Who was your FIRST provider? What was it about Her that made You Take the Plunge??

Well I guess a lot of guys who went to college got introduced to the "hobby" the same way I did. On the outskirts of town (in my case Lubbock, Texas) there were two or three seedy motels and there was always a "porter" lurking around the place at night. If you drove into the parking lot he would come up to your window and you could ask him what was cooking. He would tell you to park in front of Room #___ and when you knocked on the door you would always find a "provider" perfectly willing to help you with your frustrations. Of course you had to tip the "porter" at least $5 for his helpful assistance, without which you would get nowhere.

Dang that seemed like a long time ago but in some ways only yesterday...

Heres my story I'd gotten out of a psychotic personal relationship and just couldn't meet another girl for awhile. Then one night I was just had too much built up in my system and started doing research.. Of course maybe I didn't look hard enough but after I saw providers were needing a minimum of 2 references.. and me having 0.. A legend by the name of Logan pointed me in the right direction with one of his amazing stories, and my hobby cherry was popped.. albeitly it was a non-gfe encounter but she was sweet sorta .. Oh Sarah.. I hope shes doing alright these days.

Angela GFE. I did all my research and she was physically my type. Big brown eyes, dark hair, beautiful smile and legs all the way up to her neck. She was very patient with me being such a total Newb.

My second attempt was with the legendary Holly. I barely made it home without collapsing after that visit and was totally hooked.

I needed liquid courage for my first, second, and third!

I had been trolling backpage for a couple months when one night I decided to take the plunge with Macy from BP in Fort Worth. I think the only reason I scheduled was because she answered so late at nite and willing to see me. She turned out to be a decent provider.

My second was Brittany(the pregnant right now) about a week later at a hotel in downtown Fort Worth. I started getting nervous during the wait so I went to the bar and got kind of lit. She was gorgeous but not GFE so I was not comfortable - I never had sex with someone who did not kiss until then!
She left and an hour later called some unknown BP provider who was a BBW new at providing, so she says!

To sum things up - I just wanted to get laid and didn't care who it was!

The first provider I called I picked because she seemed friendly from her ad on Eros and her pictures were breath taking. I just had to see this woman in person. I was in LUST!!! I called and she wouldn't see me because I didn't have any references I was bummed!

Then I found ASPD. I found a provider that had a lot of interesting things to say on the board and showed a great personality. I think it was her posts that made me want to see her.

I lost track of but never forgot the lady I called first. Last year I accidentally bumped into her at a lunch social. It had been five or six years from that first call, but I could still hear her voice and see her pictures in my mind. When our chairs smashed into each other and we started talking it was all I could do to keep my composure. She said her name and I knew I was in the presence of the lady the I so desperately wanted to meet.

~1TGA

ps. Oh, and Kelly thanks for coming to lunch that day. It sucks that it took so long to meet, but well worth the wait.

1TGA!!
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Thanks for waiting. Now That right there.....Is Some Good Lovin!

Kisses Handsome Man!

~Kelly TNT

Hard to beat that story, 1TGA....

Mine was Anastasia, she had an exotic look and was Newbie friendly, and I liked her taste in music...

I read everything I could fond for about 6 months before I took the plunge.

Anastasia was great to me, got lost, had the nervous 5 second pop ( or damn close to 5 seconds)... She was great, we chatted and I brought her a CD of some music she loved. We listened, she let me try and DATY ( I sucked at it, but learned quickly since then) and was a wonderful lady.

I've been racking my brains out to answer this correctly but I'm suffering from CRSS and also it was forty years ago.

I've been racking my brains out to answer this correctly but I'm suffering from CRSS and also it was forty years ago. Originally Posted by SP Hunter

The mind is the second thing to go SP.