What does IOP mean? I cannot find IOP in urban dictionary or anywhere. Presumably it has something to do with attitude or experience of providers, What does this mean??
Originally Posted by Bd2222
IOP = Illusion of Passion. It does have a lot to do with the
attitude of the provider in that, the better her attitude, the better her service and the IOP seems like it is real passion. In other words, the more drama and condescending remarks/posts she has, the more likely you will get YMMV and dead lays than any kind of IOP from that provider.
Hopefully, she will find out that a cookie cutter approach to providing is not going to work, so her
experience will grow and she will know that all guys cannot be treated the same, as we are all different and like different things, have different definitions of GFE/passion, so it is up to the hobbyist to let the provider know what he wants out of and in a session with her. Providers who bark about guys letting them know what they like are also the one you want to avoid.