atxwrx, you're a very wise man. Please accept my apology for the way the community as whole treats black men and rest assured that not all providers are racist.
Originally Posted by sue_nami
I would have to say that is an unfair assessment. One's discomfort with sharing BCD with any particular race/look does not make them a racist. It is their body and the encounter is quite intimate. No matter how professional a provider is she still has the right to enjoy her job and the encounter.
To look down upon another as a fellow human based upon race is truly racist. We get that you are willing to see Black men as all Black mongers here now can see. That is a preference.
Some of my closest friends are black and I even have some Black family although not black myself. The fact that I am not physically attracted to Black women does not in anyway imply that I am a racist. I like what I like. First preference is exotic sorts, next is Caucasian and I guess that's about it thus far. There are however exceptions such as Venessa Williams or Halle Berry.