Adult-oriented dating/hookup sites

So, Ashley Madison was mostly dudes talking to dudes, AFF seems to be more show than go. Does anybody have any insight if there any productive dating sites, boards, etc., where the expectations of all involved are, well, plain and upfront? As much as I love hobbying (bless all you ladies) and I may never stop, sometimes it's nice to mix it up and not have to keep so much of an eye on the clock.

I'm also curious to know if any exist. My guess is probably not. Those fantastical and hilarious ads on porn sites that say things like: "YOU CAN MEET THE HOTTEST WOMEN TO HOOK UP TONIGHT!" come to mind. If there were to be a site that wasn't a dating site, or a SB/SD site, but one geared towards NSA with no expectation of the woman getting compensated, it would turn into a sausage fest just like Ashley Madison. It's the same reason why at some sex clubs or play parties single women might be charged $20 or so, or even get in for free while single men are charged $80 or $100.

Anyhoo Tinder, OkCupid, and PlentyOfFish come very close... Best of luck!

Dating sites and hookup sites and adult sites....We all PAY for it one way or another.

I think it unfortunate but I agree that there probably aren't any good ones. Without some level of accountability/verification these sites will always be nests for fraud.

Too bad... oh well.