Question about References

I haven't seen anyone recently, so I don't have any references. Does everyone require them?

Not all of them do- some are "newbie-friendly" - just do research- each of the ladies set their own rules and guidelines- there is a lot of info on this site- plus p411 and date check are also alternatives that some use to verify

Not all ladies require references there are other ways of screening. Being upfront with the lady that you do not have references however you are willing to provide any other information that she could use for screening and you will be just fine hun.

It never hurts to inquire with whom you'd like to see! Even if you don't meet her criteria right now, she can guide you in the right direction...

Often times, a provider knows newbie-friendly ladies she can refer you to...ladies whose references she will accept.

Not all ladies require references there are other ways of screening. Being upfront with the lady that you do not have references however you are willing to provide any other information that she could use for screening and you will be just fine hun. Originally Posted by Crystal Isis

^^^ This.
References are not the 'be all end all' of my screening. I'm newbie friendly with many, many ways to screen so .... no references (because you play so infrequently or a newbie) no problem.

I am newbie friendly if you can provide me with a verifiable & valid work reference...and it makes me feel comfortable.

good luck and have fun

Thank you all for the info. I would just think it would be weird for a provider to get a call or message from someone else about a client they've seen. Maybe I'm just too loyal about staying with the same person.

I agree with all of these ladies! With the right screening process you should be fine.