Black Listed

Exactly how does that work? Whats that all about? Someone said they got blacklisted.......and?? Where and when does that get logged?
It means a provider no longer wants to see someone for whatever reason or will not see someone she hasn't seen before because of something she knows about that person or has found out about that person (from other ladies, from posting history, from screening, etc).

Does that answer your question or are you looking for something more specific?
I see you added more content to your question. We, providers, have ways of communicating, but we do not post it in the open how it is done for safety reasons.

The person who was blacklisted should know why he was blacklisted to begin with. And that's not to say it is across the board. Most likely, it's with one lady.
For me it depends on the reason the lady black listed you sir
Exactly how does that work? Whats that all about? Someone said they got blacklisted.......and?? Where and when does that get logged? Originally Posted by JungleJack
It doesn't work. Just read the Alerts Section.

A provider can choose not to see you. It doesn't mean that the rest will follow suit. If hooktards and pimptards would be more worried about reading alerts than turning a quick buck; perhaps there would be less alerts about the same topic.
Thanks for the information. I saw on another forum where this guy was saying he had gotten blacklisted.
I thought to myself that something like that could be a pretty powerful retribution for a singular, and possibly a minor misunderstanding. However, I had really never seen or heard of anyone actually getting "Blacklisted" before.

So once, many years ago, I had contacted a new (and young) provider, and for whatever reason, I don't remember exactly, she questioned my credentials (who I said I was). So I guess she didn't like my reaction/responses (I had PM'd her from eccie and p411) and she said she was gonna complain to "someone". I sent her a $50.00 "gift" on P411.I stopped responding to her PM's and moved along. She took the bribe, and I know that sounds like I might have been guilty of something, but actually I had figured if she was as shallow as I thought she might have been she would quite down and go away. She did exactly that.
So now, years later, I'm hearing about this "other guy", on a different thread, about how for some ridiculous reason he's being threatened with being "blacklisted" by a provider. Who, by the way, from a distance, appears to be a little "unstable" (the provider).
So anyway, thanks for the feedback. Doesn't sound to terribly threatening if your a good boy. Lol
For me it depends on the reason the lady black listed you sir Originally Posted by the cowgirl

I wasn't referring to myself beautiful
Does that answer your question or are you looking for something more specific? Originally Posted by Camille Fox
Its hard to remember what the question was........

"Fox" is just the first word.........
^^^ you, you... Lol
ck1942's Avatar
In a universe back when, P***'s List was the semi-official "Back Channel" that many providers used as a bible.

It still exists, but it's mostly dormant these days. But it was felt by many ladies that it was more secure than letting the male mods see stuff in the InfoShare forums and not all ladies have PowderRoom access even though they are verified here in the first few weeks.

There's almost always a provider who will tell a dude that he's been black listed and usually who did the deed, as if he cannot figure that out himself.

Some dudes get "rehabilitated" but many of them just register a new handle and try to bypass the ladies' security barriers.

The ladies who ran the List did not identify the List contributors, but seems like they did a very good job of weeding out fake reports, to the best of my knowledge.

imho, there are many back channels and ladies groups these days especially in local areas, and then there are a couple of national black list bulletin boards, but I'm not sure how well those really work.
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Been blacklisted a couple times. One by la famosa wicked witch. Another time by this fat gal in a dumpy apartment on fred road across from the heb on hildebrand - I forget her name. She was pimping out a young hottie who was a lousy lay. I forget her name so old heads help me out. Blonde fat never shut her mouth.

Both times for being ugly and having a stinky dick.

Too many hos too little time to worry about blacklisting bs.

Glad the gals have the ability to share info on who should legitimately be blacklisted tho.
Flinde I would of just handed you a bar of soap ands tell you to get to it lol . I'm only joking no harm was meant
Some of these chicks blacklist on sites or when they hear something from a provider friend. Don't sweat it because at the end of the day, it is one less potential client meaning one less payday.

chicks who do it a lot typically end up retiring earlier or guys find them out and boycott them.
KlassyKelliAnn's Avatar
There are good reasons to "blacklist" either a client or even a provider. (ex. Crazy Marine...) However, there are quite a few people, both male and female that like to abuse this when/if they don't get their way. Misuse or over use makes it more time consuming for the rest of us to weed out the BS. Sometimes, though, the BS is so obvious and comedic and so it may be worth a read just for shits and giggles. In truth, anyone can change a handle and invent a New persona thus fooling the masses. Some are just too stupid or just plain psychotic that they end up fucking up again and getting caught equalling a new alert for the new handle. Lack of chemistry does not justify an alert nor does bad service. Put that shit in a review where it belongs. Clients who are a one time or two NCNS or post a negative review of a provider do not deserve to be alerted on. I've seen all these reasons used in the past to either alert or fully blacklist a client and/or provider, among some other very trivial BS. An alert or blacklisting is for those very serious issues, including but not limited to, scary, threatening, thieving, or dangerous situations.

Don't ever let a provider or a client intimidate you with threats of alert/blacklisting or negative reviews. The truth ALWAYS comes out...eventually.

KKA
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There are times when I will just put guys on my personal blacklist and not post anything about them on here or other blacklist sites, if it is something minor.
If it is because of being a NCNS, or not paying, or being disrespectful/dangerous, I will post a thread for the ladies to see. But it will always be up to other ladies if they want to take the chance to see the guy. I will usually just post the facts of what happened, I see no reason to attack or put down a person, but the actions need to be made available to the ladies.
If it is something dangerous, then I believe everyone should be made aware, not just the ladies.