EXTREME penetrations

ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
Need some helpful hints. It seems as if I'm entering into this territory a little bit more than before and although I do have "some" experience, I feel that I need to know more.

Discussion, please?

Hugs,
Elisabeth
Are you talking large objects? Fisting? DP? Double vag?
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
All of the above.

Mainly, when discussing fisting and using very large penetrative toys, I want to make sure that I'm doing everything safely. And I feel that I am.

But if anyone has any helpful hints in terms of anything to do with this subject, I would appreciate it.

Thanks,
Elisabeth
Jack Nicholson's Avatar
All of the above.

Mainly, when discussing fisting and using very large penetrative toys, I want to make sure that I'm doing everything safely. And I feel that I am.

But if anyone has any helpful hints in terms of anything to do with this subject, I would appreciate it.

Thanks,
Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
As they say "never bite off more than you can chew!"
I have got a collection you have got to see~

I get toys just for my probing lovers~
Pictures will be posted~
DallasRain's Avatar
LOTS of lube...lol

I just had a session where I used a 10 inch "hung" strap on to a guy....it took a half bottle of lube!


have fun is best advice!!
Ms. Athena's Avatar
YES YES YES, Lots of lube and I prefer a good water base lube, so I dont have to worry about which toys Im using with which lube. Keep it simple, start smaller and work your way upwards, research your fetish and YES above all have FUN!!!!

A bottle of good lube always makes a nice gift..................lol
Sonya Playmate's Avatar
All I can say is use (lots) of lube, lube, lube
  • Jets
  • 12-18-2011, 12:02 PM
For fisting it is a good idea to use latex gloves - this provides protection for both - and can smooth the way vs. skin to interior ;-) Lots of lube is required - with much reapplication. I like the elbow length gloves for deep penetration (extreme I guess). I've seen videos of past the elbow - don't know how they do that - lots of practice I'm sure. Even two handed fisting. For great advice on all things fisting - type "fisting forum" into google. This site also includes penetration with large dildoes as well - and I mean big ones (BAM and more!). The web site contains boards, how tos, videos etc. Free registration. A great resource. KEEP PLAYING!
Sonya Playmate's Avatar
For fisting it is a good idea to use latex gloves - this provides protection for both - and can smooth the way vs. skin to interior ;-) Lots of lube is required - with much reapplication. I like the elbow length gloves for deep penetration (extreme I guess). I've seen videos of past the elbow - don't know how they do that - lots of practice I'm sure. Even two handed fisting. For great advice on all things fisting - type "fisting forum" into google. This site also includes penetration with large dildoes as well - and I mean big ones (BAM and more!). The web site contains boards, how tos, videos etc. Free registration. A great resource. KEEP PLAYING! Originally Posted by Jets
There are some people local here in Dallas that are wonderful fisting trainers/bottoms. I suggest getting involved in the community and learning how to do it safely from someone who knows how to do it.

Like they said, lube/lube/lube! Start out slowly stretching the sphincter and work your way up to larger toys. If it starts hurting your bottom, slow down, and stretch some more. They can also help you out by training their bottom with butt plugs. You can buy dilation kits that will help with this.

But you need to be very careful. Wear gloves, clip your nails so you don't puncture the gloves or tear their rectum. Vaginal fisting is much easier than anal, but only half of everyone has a vagina... .

There are also a number of sites out there that will educate you on pro's and con's of the various lubes and things you can do. Check out Tristan Taormino - she's been around asses for a long time.
DallasRain's Avatar
good point----you need trimmed nails or "no nails"!
burkalini's Avatar
I have fisted a few providers at their request. It amazes me how it can open up the wide. I will say the orgasms they had were some of the most intense I have ever seen
Not a whole lot of experience but I have seen every youporn video with the biggins being used!
Tori Hastings's Avatar
What about urethral sounds? I think these would be fun to learn how to use. Maybe even use a tens unit with them? There would probably be more people that would know more about this than me, but I do love strap-ons and would like to learn how to use sounds.