I was with a very new provider recently, and I was advising her on generally accepted activities that encompass GFE (lfk, dfk, bbbj, msog at a minimum.). She asked what was included in PSE, and other than FFing and intensity level, I didn't really know what to tell her.
So what is included. I see some ads where PSE is even an up charge over GFE. No idea what should be expected should I desire.
Most PSE ads = GREEK acceptable.
but really, PSE should be porn star expierence.
I would think CIM, COF should be included. And pse provider should be more open-minded with something new even kinky... such as snowballing, cum play. swallow.. prostate massage.. threesome, foursome,etc..
for me DT, lots of sloppy face fucking, any position imaginable, for some Greek, and for me a total abandon of ANY inhibition.
I always just thought it was kinky like what you see in porn videos. And that gfe by itself was a tad bit more plain.
I think
Luxury Daphne nailed it. A good 411 activities link and if they would stick to it would be nice.
When she gives you a really sloppy blow job, spit running down her chin onto her breasts and then you grab the back of her head and force her to deep throat you until she gags, then let her get a breath of fresh air, and shove your dick back down her throat.
And then pick her up and throw her on the sofa, spread her legs, spit on her pussy, stick three fingers in it and vigorously finger fuck her while licking her clit with your tongue.
And then stand up, spread her legs wide apart and fuck her real hard in a wide variety of positions, then flip her over and stick your dick in her ass and pound away while you're spanking her ass and then when you're about to cum, pull out and make her kneel on the floor, open her mouth, stick out her tongue while you jack off and then spray your cum on her tongue , face and tits. Make her swallow it.
And, then make her suck your dick and squeeze your balls until there's no cum left. And then you slap her face a little bit.
COF should be on the menu
PSE for me means several things. A lot of dirty talk. Eye contact. And, more importantly, not having to ask if "this" is okay or if "that" is okay, but rather the provider telling me to do the things we sometimes wonder if are okay or not. "Put your finger in my ass," "Pull my hair," "Finger-fuck me," "I want you to cum (in my mouth, on my tits, on my ass, etc.)." Also, playing with themselves while BBBJ or fucking, huge amount of sexual energy, and a tendency towards some kind of sexual activity for every minute on the clock. I should have to slow her down instead of her slowing me down. Greek and Russian (if possible) should be a given, too.
There are more, but the above are what I look for when with a provider that lists PSE in their repertoire...Only had that 100% with 1 provider. It's not something I have to have, but it's always a lot more fun when it's there.
Also, playing with themselves while BBBJ or fucking, huge amount of sexual energy, and a tendency towards some kind of sexual activity for every minute on the clock. I should have to slow her down instead of her slowing me down.
Originally Posted by tk3g0d
^^This.. there are no breaks in a PSE session. It's either go hard or go home.
...Only had that 100% with 1 provider.
Originally Posted by tk3g0d
poor baby.
poor baby.
Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne
<sniff>
Had varying degrees that came real close, though...and had a lot of fun
for me DT, lots of sloppy face fucking, any position imaginable, for some Greek, and for me a total abandon of ANY inhibition.
Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne
I like the way you think^^^^^ Sound like this is vvvvvv "total abandonment of ANY inhibition" If so Daphne, I really need to see you!
When she gives you a really sloppy blow job, spit running down her chin onto her breasts and then you grab the back of her head and force her to deep throat you until she gags, then let her get a breath of fresh air, and shove your dick back down her throat.
And then pick her up and throw her on the sofa, spread her legs, spit on her pussy, stick three fingers in it and vigorously finger fuck her while licking her clit with your tongue.
And then stand up, spread her legs wide apart and fuck her real hard in a wide variety of positions, then flip her over and stick your dick in her ass and pound away while you're spanking her ass and then when you're about to cum, pull out and make her kneel on the floor, open her mouth, stick out her tongue while you jack off and then spray your cum on her tongue , face and tits. Make her swallow it.
And, then make her suck your dick and squeeze your balls until there's no cum left. And then you slap her face a little bit.
Originally Posted by StinkyFingers
Thanks all. So it seems a safe definition is bbbjcim w/DT, full action wire to wire, some level of ass play, and a verbal expression of encouragement from the provider. Full Greek seems to be effectively handled as a separate negotiation. Seems reasonable to me.
Its pretty much balls to the wall.
Everyone's version of PSE is going to differ...My PSE is kind of like The Psycho Experience, and I mean that in the best possible way.
The crazies make the best lovers...