Ladies do you prefer incall or outcall clients?

This thread is intended for provider input.

Of course you enjoy both incall and outcall mongers (Money is money) but do you have a preference for incall or outcall?

It seems review count doesn't mean squat when some crazy fuck just impersonates the handle of an established board member and shows up at your incall.

Of course common sense would dictate that an incall provider would only operate through PM's or research heavily but Kingman's (Slinky's) continued success at booking incall appts. under different aliases would show that reality is a different matter entirely.

I have always been an "outcall at my cave" monger which greatly decreases my options as far as provider selection goes but as tonight's lovely provider told me (As have many others) she much prefers outcalls because ...

a) Mongers are never fakes or impersonators in their own homes.
b) The provider has the upper hand in that if he is some crazy fuck her GPS shows his address and she knows who he is.
c) Outcall mongers are generally more respectful because you are in their private RW domain and they know it.
d) The session is usually more comfortable and relaxed for the very same reason (Assuming he is single of course).
e) They will never short you on your donation for the very same reason.

I am not claiming one is better than the other for everyone as every provider has different needs.

If you as a provider prefer incalls then please share why.

Ladies what has your experience taught you in terms of incall versus outcall clients?

Again this thread is intended to find out the ladies perspective. It is Not about whether mongers prefer one over the other.

I realize many a monger feels strongly against giving any provider access to his domain for very justifiable reasons however that is not the point of this thread.

When I have asked this same question directly in the past most have said they prefer a first meeting to be an incall type for general safety and to a lesser degree time management.

To quote one lady specifically "That way I know where my guns are hidden and once he's naked know that his will be in his pants across the room, an outcall is just the opposite"

Time management applies more to the traveling gals, having to catch a cab out to your place and back, or driving around the burbs trying to figure out where willow brook lane crosses Willow brook street and where the hell willow brook circle is ... all for an hour or less even with a $50 or so outcall up charge often just not good business sense.

I could offer a counterpoint to each of your points but I don't think that is what you are looking for.

I prefer my incall. I have candles and music and clean towels/washcloths. That's not to say that a client doesn't have those things, I just prefer mine. I don't have to drive around, hoping like hell that Siri is taking me to the right address (my biggest fear is knocking on the wrong door - almost did that once because I was at the wrong hotel).

I also agree with what Bob said about the guns.

As for the guy leaving the donation in the car - I'll throw a robe on and walk out with you.

With all that said, I do enjoy outcalls to homes - it's fun to see how others decorate, what pets (if any) they have, what music they have playing, what their bar is stocked with, etc.

Most outcalls are actually to hotels. Providers have no control over the situation. They are out of their comfort zone. They have no idea if they are being video taped. They have no idea if you have buddies hiding somewhere. I know many providers personally, and they don't like doing them that much, if 2 guys request and 1 is outcall, they will take the incall every time.

Let me tell you why I only do incall and would not even consider outcall. I have a playspace that makes me comfortable, happy and it is quite safe. i am glad i never have to go to a stranger's house or be stood up by losers at a hotel. Certainly i get stood up at my incall sometimes but at least i am already there and it is less of a pain in my ass than having drove across town to get stood up. I love my incall and that makes for a better experience for you.

Thanks for the feedback. I should have been more explicit regarding the term Outcall.

I was referring specifically to outcall at a mongers home where he is fully exposed and vulnerable and the provider can also be traced should any weirdness occur.

Imposters can always find ways to book hotel rooms anonymously.

Personally, I prefer my incall. But have done some outcalls with a minimum of 1 hour.
Being a squirter, I know that my bed is protected. I sometimes feel guilty in someone else's bed if I start squirting too much.
I will sometimes try to stop myself if I can, but not always possible.

I don't prefer outcall to homes. I will and have gone out to a clients home but I prefer hotel outcalls.

I do feel very vulnerable at a clients home. I will only go to nice neighborhoods of well established clients. I ask the client if it's ok if I tell a provider friend the address of where I'm going. I know I could do this with out asking, but it helps me feelout the guy if I ask him to let a trusted friend know I am at their place. If he says no, I wont go. Most guys are ok with me doing what I need to feel safe and comfortable.

Also when going to a residential outcall of a guy I don't know very well. I ask that he somehow verify he actually lives at that address. Either via a call from a listed home phone (rare these days), or other methods (to be sooooold not toooold j/k)

I enjoy both on a physical level!
However, I like outcalls more because, there is so much less traffic than a hotel and men seem much more relaxed in their own environment.
I also usually only see P411 gents, which I feel is much safer than a review board on an outcall.

I like outcalls to the nicer hotels and established clients' residences. Otherwise, I prefer my own incall for most of the reasons already stated.

I don't prefer outcall to homes. I will and have gone out to a clients home but I prefer hotel outcalls.

I do feel very vulnerable at a clients home. I will only go to nice neighborhoods of well established clients. I ask the client if it's ok if I tell a provider friend the address of where I'm going. I know I could do this with out asking, but it helps me feelout the guy if I ask him to let a trusted friend know I am at their place. If he says no, I wont go. Most guys are ok with me doing what I need to feel safe and comfortable.

Also when going to a residential outcall of a guy I don't know very well. I ask that he somehow verify he actually lives at that address. Either via a call from a listed home phone (rare these days), or other methods (to be sooooold not toooold j/k) Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

I guess I was one of the lucky ones? you came to my house twice and I had never met you before

I guess I was one of the lucky ones? you came to my house twice and I had never met you before Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

how did she see you twice w/o ever meeting you before?


(sorry, I found it funny)

^^^^ hahaha

The power of the proverbial pen.




I'm not comfortable with outcalls to ppl's homes either... Spouses, girlfriends, neighbors, weapons, drugs, alcohol, too many rooms... I can see the positives and negatives of both hotels and homes, but it is just my preference. In a hotel, I feel like I have a bit more control of the environment. Idk, it's one of those 100% personal preference things...

^^^^ hahaha

The power of the proverbial pen.




I'm not comfortable with outcalls to ppl's homes either... Spouses, girlfriends, neighbors, weapons, drugs, alcohol, too many rooms... I can see the positives and negatives of both hotels and homes, but it is just my preference. In a hotel, I feel like I have a bit more control of the environment. Idk, it's one of those 100% personal preference things... Originally Posted by Camille Fox

Everyone wants the home field advantage .. so to speak.

Depending on the person in question (either professionally and socially) I may not want them in my home, but the wine selection here is better than any hotel room I have seen so far.

I guess I was one of the lucky ones? you came to my house twice and I had never met you before Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

They told me you had a huge shlong! I knew I couldn't go wrong!!!!

J/K. You fit in the, highly-regarded members babe. You get a pass.
Plus I was fresh meat back then. I was shook'n and jiv'n (old lady terms for that ass).

how did she see you twice w/o ever meeting you before?


(sorry, I found it funny) Originally Posted by Bob McV

hehe.

Everyone wants the home field advantage .. so to speak.

Depending on the person in question (either professionally and socially) I may not want them in my home, but the wine selection here is better than any hotel room I have seen so far. Originally Posted by Bob McV

You seem like the kind of person anyone could enjoy a bottle of wine with.
I don't think it would matter where we were. We could be in a dumpster on Skid Row and it would probably feel like Southern France; only if Camille was there too of course.

XO. Ok enough ass kissing for the day.
Now I'll probably go fantasize about the two of you.
Getting in character I suppose; going to see a couplllllle, tonight!!!
Wooohooo!