Hoop Jump'n

So I've been around awhile, right. Had a handle here since ECCIE went live, had one back on ASPD too. Posted 4 reviews there. One here. Could have posted a couple more here. Just never got around to it. The point is that I just don't post much anymore. Sure, when I'm bored I'm come here & read some posts. Maybe my libido just isn't what it used to be. I dunno. Anyway, as a result, I may have a history, but when I do finally decide to go looking for a little adventure, I don't have "...2 current references."

I had the afternoon off last Fri. & wound up 0 for 4 w/ the ladies here.

I'm not whining or complaining. I get it. You girls have to stay safe. There's a lot of crap that happens in this business as it is. So do what ya gotta do.

So my question is...when I'm not a frequent flyer, what's the best way to get back on the accepted list?

My first 2 thoughts were to either contact as many providers as it took to meet to aforementioned requirement, but that seems potentially costly in a couple of respects. Plus, maybe they wouldn't end up being good references. Or, get P411. That one actually seems like the cheaper/more effective option.

I hesitate to post questions here sometimes because I don't want people to feel like they're giving away trade secrets...to those LE spies who I'm sure we all assume come here & read our posts. So don't feel like to have to respond publicly. PM works too.

So my question is...when I'm not a frequent flyer, what's the best way to get back on the accepted list? Originally Posted by BobsAlias

1) You could deal with Backpage girls, or ECCIE girls who advertise as being "newbie friendly". That will work in the short term, and will be necessary for a lot of those "last minute urges". However, it is less safe and ultimately won't help you in the long term, as most quality providers won't accept them as references.

2) Join a screening service which will pre-screen you and enter you into their database. Many ladies will accept you as a client based on this pre-screening. The most popular one around here is Preferred 411 (http://www.p411.com). The annual cost is less than a half-hour date with most providers. You may not like the idea of a company out there having your personal information, but P411 is located in Canada and isn't likely to give out your information, and ends up being safer than giving screening info to individual providers. The other downside of P411 is that some providers, even ones on P411's site, still want references. This kind of defeats the purpose of P411, but there are some newbie friendly providers on P411 and seeing them gets you references.

3) Many providers will screen you themselves. This usually requires you to provide employment information and other personal details. The advantage is that there won't be a cost like with a screening service. The downside is that it takes time to get screened, so this isn't much use if you have a last minute availability. Also, you might not trust that an escort is going to treat your information securely.

Once you have a few reputable references, you should have a far easier time seeing other providers. However it will always be a struggle seeing someone new at short notice outside of a screening service like P411. Screening takes time, and anyone who doesn't screen is more dangerous.

A screening service is the best before I joined I had seen some providers but when a girl I hadn't seen asked for references I hesitated because I didn't know if the ad was real or LE.

It just sucks having to start over again every so often. I'm certainly no newbie. Like I said, I've been around these boards for close to 4 yrs. I've posted reviews & comments, had several pm conversations with other members & followed most of the storylines here over the years. Heck, I should be the one asking for references. lol

Yeah. I suppose I'd be telling someone thr same things you told me if it'd been someone else posting the same question. Maybe I was hoping to get a pm from a provider saying, "... sure I remember you...I'd be happy to see you..." ;-)