Was it special for you when you were new?

How special was your first time? What experience did you want to take with you when you both parted ways??

I can't explain what I personally want (TMI) all I know is I want that first experience to be with someone that otherwise was unattainable in my everyday life and to be an experience that I remember till my very last breath. One that when you remember it you get instant chub.
My first couple of ventures into the hobby were filled with regret simply because I didn't speak up. I didn't let the woman know specifically what I wanted so, obviously, I didn't get specifically what I wanted. I was too worried about what she would think of me to realize that I was too vanilla for any of my requests to even register on her shock meter.

If you know what you want, make sure she knows what you want. If you want her to take charge and lead the way, make sure she knows that.

Take a few minutes at the start to get a little comfortable with each other, then speak up so the memories of your first experience don't start with, "Damn, I should've..."
travelling_man's Avatar
My first time with a hooker I didn't even know it really was my first time. I had met a girl from matchmaker or match.com and all seemed good. We met and had a quick drink at a hotel bar and I thought that the girl was extremely friendly and really into me. She offered to take me back to her room and who was I to refuse? We got down and dirty and fucked like bunnies then the awkward moment came at the end when she asked if I was going to leave something for her. I had no idea what she was talking about. She already had my number so what was I going to leave? She had to pretty much spell it out to me that she was a working girl and that while she did enjoy my company her time was valuable. Since I was unprepared and she knew it she felt bad and realized that it was her fault for not letting me know. I gave her something (exactly what she asked) but I'm sure it was much less than her "going rate". She said that if I wanted more girls like her that were a "sure thing" that I should look on this website called ASPD. I guess that was sometime around 2002. I joined ASPD back in 2002 and the rest is history.
shok's Avatar
  • shok
  • 01-29-2010, 10:51 AM
Very special!


She had down syndrome, I had $40 bucks

It started with a glass of wine, it ended with me digging my way out of a shallow grave at 4am.


Aww the memories
I was loaded on Viagra and scotch, popped in under 3 minutes, and spent the rest of the time talking to this relatively inexperienced 19-year old gal while laying in bed together. Looking back, I'm sure a second pop was available, but I didn't know to take the initiative and I was actually pretty wiped out after all the anticipation. My main thought afterwards was "I can't believe I just did that."
Hardallnight's Avatar
My first time was many years ago when you walked in and there were several girls to choose from, all of them HOT! I chose a petite blonde with large naturals (this was before enhancements became popular), we go back to the room and she closes the door and on the back of the door is a list of menu options with prices I chose "around the world" at whatever the going rate was back then. We then walk to the bathroom where she runs warm soapy water in to a pail and washes my manhood and then dries it off. Back to the room and WOW! What an unforgettable session! Maybe that is why I still hobby, that first experience while I was in my early 20's just stuck with me. There have been many more since then and hopefully many more to come.
Bestman200600's Avatar
I was 14 years old. I started early.
I was 13, she was 12. Oh, those were the days.