"very safe"

I am seeing more adds that safe "completely safe" or some other mention of the word safe. i used to think that is the neighborhood they are in but with all the conversation regarding BBFS, i am wondering if that is a condom reference. Have not questioned providers on that as i am a condom guy all the time so no issue with me. just curious.
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I'm speculating, but to me "safe play" is more in line with insistence on condom for ALL activities.. "very safe" can mean that, too, but it can also mean "you are safe to have me in any way" you choose.
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Chj, cbj, cfs, clfk, cdfk, cconvo, cgroping, cdaty, cdato, cfingerbang, cgreek, ccr, etc.....
I use the word "safe" to indicate several things...Safe area, safe location, not a ho-tel, no pimp in the shower or under the bed. Never robbed anyone or stolen anything. As in, NOT a danger to your safety in a physical way. Think "Le' Meridian" issue.

Never considered that it might be interpreted as a condom/no-condom indication. This is a prime example of your "little head" overthinking your "big head". (smile)
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It means the headboard is padded!!
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  • L.A.
  • 01-05-2017, 06:52 AM
I am seeing more adds that safe "completely safe" or some other mention of the word safe. i used to think that is the neighborhood they are in but with all the conversation regarding BBFS, i am wondering if that is a condom reference. Have not questioned providers on that as i am a condom guy all the time so no issue with me. just curious. Originally Posted by jakirby
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"Safe" being used in the way the OP is referring to probably means that the provider also only engages in covered blow jobs, and covered DATY, as well as CFS. Essentially, whenever there would be any fluid exchange, she requires covers to be used.

Whenever people make light of other's safer sex preferences, it obscures the fact than mutual pleasure is still possible when using condoms, dental dams, and gloves. Plus there are lots of highly reviewed CBJ only providers.
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  • L.A.
  • 01-05-2017, 10:07 AM
[QUOTE=Lena Duvall;1059036867Plus there are lots of highly reviewed CBJ only providers.[/QUOTE]

Not so many "round these parts"
^^^^^ I would never proclaim to be more of an expert on these parts than you are. One of the points I was making is that there are some CBJ only escorts who are doing quite well.