P411 Profile

I know we all have our personal protocols for setting up engagements, but I’ve found one of the best means I have for communicating with a lady in anticipation of a date is my P411 profile. The assortment of drop-down selections and free-hand comments about certain items are helpful in themselves. However, the most valuable is the longer, free-form box at the end that allows for an extensive narrative.

I put a lot of time and work into using this feature to paint a good picture of myself, provide appropriate info about my preferences and practices, and let a lady know what she can expect from me when we meet. Of the 3,000 characters available for text, my current count is 2,975. It reads more like a story than a data outline and I continually get favorable comments from the gals about how much they loved reading it and how helpful it was in setting the stage for an upcoming encounter.

Ladies, I’m grateful for those of you I’ve communicated with through the years who have taken the time to interact over on P411 as it’s been beneficial in both directions.

Guys, let me encourage you to help the ladies—and yourself—by putting some time into building your own narrative. It pays dividends.

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I have noticed the same thing. Only a few that I have contacted actually check my profile, encounters, etc. (depending on how they do their DD). Most are hot to trot for the encounter. I have seen a couple in the last year that have seen clients without doing the appropriate DD and they have told me how they were screwed over by clients (not paying, shorting them, etc.). I have no problem being checked/vouched for/vetted etc. I think we are both more comfortable when we know who we are meeting.

I need another cup of coffee this morning. My post above should be on the OP's "P411 Profile" post in the Men's Lounge. Sorry for any confusion. If the mods would like to move it, that would be great.

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Ladies, I’m grateful for those of you I’ve communicated with through the years who have taken the time to interact over on P411 as it’s been beneficial in both directions.

Guys, let me encourage you to help the ladies—and yourself—by putting some time into building your own narrative. It pays dividends.
.. Originally Posted by 2on1Lover

I need another cup of coffee this morning. My post above should be on the OP's "P411 Profile" post in the Men's Lounge. Sorry for any confusion. If the mods would like to move it, that would be great. Originally Posted by 2on1Lover

If this post was meant to be in ML, then why are you addressing ladies?

As far as filling out my profile, I am the same way, it saves time for me to not have go by bullshit ads and communications before an appointment is set to find out if we are going to be compatible. However, many ladies do agree with everything in your profile, then do not fulfill their end, so that will warrant a negative review for them.

If this post was meant to be in ML, then why are you addressing ladies?

. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

I put a DIFFERENT thread, addressing a different issue, but by the same title in the ML. If reading new posts via the general board, the two were probably side by side.

My bad for not titling more distinctly.

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The client Bio is very helpful to me. I appreciate when they take the time to write a bit about themselves and include what is important to them. I have respectfully declined a request after reading a Bio. If I’m not comfortable with something that’s important to them, then it’s best to be courteous, let them know and decline. I would think most ladies appreciate the info.

I know we all have our personal protocols for setting up engagements, but I’ve found one of the best means I have for communicating with a lady in anticipation of a date is my P411 profile. The assortment of drop-down selections and free-hand comments about certain items are helpful in themselves. However, the most valuable is the longer, free-form box at the end that allows for an extensive narrative.

I put a lot of time and work into using this feature to paint a good picture of myself, provide appropriate info about my preferences and practices, and let a lady know what she can expect from me when we meet. Of the 3,000 characters available for text, my current count is 2,975. It reads more like a story than a data outline and I continually get favorable comments from the gals about how much they loved reading it and how helpful it was in setting the stage for an upcoming encounter.

Ladies, I’m grateful for those of you I’ve communicated with through the years who have taken the time to interact over on P411 as it’s been beneficial in both directions.

Guys, let me encourage you to help the ladies—and yourself—by putting some time into building your own narrative. It pays dividends.

.. Originally Posted by Cossetan

The client Bio is very helpful to me. I appreciate when they take the time to write a bit about themselves and include what is important to them. I have respectfully declined a request after reading a Bio. If I’m not comfortable with something that’s important to them, then it’s best to be courteous, let them know and decline. I would think most ladies appreciate the info. Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

Lindsay, as one who has taken the time to read my bio and screen thoroughly, I appreciate you taking the time to do so. I know I was more comfortable knowing you vet your guests. As was mentioned above, it seems that’s happening somewhat less frequently, even through P411.

I had several occasions recently where I got texts from ladies within moments of sending a screening request and they hadn’t viewed my profile, nor did they until I asked them specifically to do so. That gives me pause about my own safety and well-being.

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I had several occasions recently where I got texts from ladies within moments of sending a screening request and they hadn’t viewed my profile, nor did they until I asked them specifically to do so. That gives me pause about my own safety and well-being.

.. Originally Posted by Cossetan

There are lots of ladies on p411 that do not read profiles, I guess they don't know or don't care that we can see it when a provider has not accessed the hobbyist's profile, they just want the appointment. To these ladies, P411 is just another advertising platform to reach johns.

I agree OP, P411 is quick and respected .

I read about the members who contact me and it is helpful insight
About the likes and dislikes of the gentleman

To keep the content of the post relevant here’s mine

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