Does this make me a bad provider....I dont want to get burnt out with this nor do I want my hobby friends to have me after a long day in the office....
Sure all the hobby friends enjoy knowing I dont book everyone that contacts me,I try to set it up so they all can have a fresh date,is that wrong,I enjoy the rewards that comes with the business but I want to take it slow so I dont get burnt out!Who wants a provider knowing shes been in the office ALLL day long?
Hope to hear some good feedback!
- sabrina nicole
- 04-11-2010, 09:08 PM
- TinMan
- 04-11-2010, 09:18 PM
There are plenty of providers who limit the number of appointments to 1 or 2 a day, or 1-2 per week for that matter (in the latter case they usually have other means of employment, going to school, etc.).
Just be clear about it in your ads. Speaking for myself, I rarely see women who are known as "volume" ladies. I'm willing to put up with the scheduling difficulties that inevitably result.
Just be clear about it in your ads. Speaking for myself, I rarely see women who are known as "volume" ladies. I'm willing to put up with the scheduling difficulties that inevitably result.
- travelling_man
- 04-11-2010, 09:43 PM
It really doesn't matter. The only thing matters is what you want and what makes you happy. If you want to make a certain amount of money, then see enough guys to make the amount of money that makes you happy. No guys wants to see a provider knowing that he is #5, #6 or #7 for the day. But if you have a good attitude and make sure you are fresh before every appointment I'd be glad to see you as long as I don't KNOW that you have had a busy day.
So as a hint...here are some things NOT to say......
-Wow, my pussy sure is sore after those last 5 guys today. I hope you have a little dick.
-That last guy had a really big dick and just tore my ass up. Can we skip greek because I don't think I can take it.
-I hope there isn't any cum still left in my hair. I didn't have time to shower after the last guy came all over my face and I think some got in my hair.
-Can you bring some rubbers? I used up the entire box of 36 earlier today.
So as a hint...here are some things NOT to say......
-Wow, my pussy sure is sore after those last 5 guys today. I hope you have a little dick.
-That last guy had a really big dick and just tore my ass up. Can we skip greek because I don't think I can take it.
-I hope there isn't any cum still left in my hair. I didn't have time to shower after the last guy came all over my face and I think some got in my hair.
-Can you bring some rubbers? I used up the entire box of 36 earlier today.
- Fritz52
- 04-11-2010, 10:35 PM
Sabrina, I think it's smart to limit your appointments. It will preserve your sanity 
and reputation. I'm willing to wait for the high quality experience.
and reputation. I'm willing to wait for the high quality experience.
- Guest060812
- 04-11-2010, 10:44 PM
I think most guys would prefer to see a low volume Provider.
- am-a-pleaser
- 04-11-2010, 11:05 PM
Sabrina, I feel the same way you do. I've avoided scheduling when i'm tired. I want the provider to enjoy my company. Sometimes, though, it would be nice to spend some time just laying down with a provider. A little conversation. Maybe some light kissing and touching.
At times I wish I could find a provider at a time when that's all she wanted, too. It would be a pleasant and enjoyable time.
I prefer low-volume providers.
At times I wish I could find a provider at a time when that's all she wanted, too. It would be a pleasant and enjoyable time.
I prefer low-volume providers.
- OldGrump
- 04-12-2010, 01:15 AM
Sabrina,
If you post your availability as limited, I don't think anyone would mind missing out. You said you don't book everyone who contacts you. That's certainly understandable, but an "I'm sorry, I'm booked this week" would be better than ignoring a hopeful contact. You didn't mention how you respond to those you don't see.
I believe most prefer low volume providers and a quality experience.
If you post your availability as limited, I don't think anyone would mind missing out. You said you don't book everyone who contacts you. That's certainly understandable, but an "I'm sorry, I'm booked this week" would be better than ignoring a hopeful contact. You didn't mention how you respond to those you don't see.
I believe most prefer low volume providers and a quality experience.
- Iaintliein
- 04-12-2010, 04:42 AM
Your business, your body, your rules.
Regards,
Regards,
- selot
- 04-12-2010, 07:41 AM
Do what you are comfortable with. Like others have said, put in your Ad that you are low volume "1 - 2 per day".
But also, make sure that you respond to everyone that contacts you, nothing worse than sending a request to a lady and never hearing anything back from them.
It's your "Business" run it like you want!!!
But also, make sure that you respond to everyone that contacts you, nothing worse than sending a request to a lady and never hearing anything back from them.
It's your "Business" run it like you want!!!
- txcwby6
- 04-12-2010, 11:37 AM
I don't understand why this would even be a topic. If you want to see one hobbyist a month its solely your choice. If you want to hang your open legs out of the drive thru window of a Dairy Queen that's your business too. Just make certain if you take the DQ route that the chocolate syrup is warm!
- Apollo!
- 04-12-2010, 02:36 PM
- Kamakazi31
- 04-12-2010, 02:44 PM
You're on th right track Doll, I'm sure the client and the provider will definitely benefit more from your decision. Any client that sees you should thank you....
- Kendra Hart
- 04-12-2010, 03:21 PM
Just do what feels right to you, we are here to provide a service but it is your mind and body so do what you feel is right for you. I'm a low volume provider but I rarely advertise that I am I just limit my appointments if necessary or let the gent know that I'm not available.
- pmdelites
- 04-12-2010, 10:35 PM
Sabrina,
If you post your availability as limited, I don't think anyone would mind missing out. You said you don't book everyone who contacts you. That's certainly understandable, but an "I'm sorry, I'm booked this week" would be better than ignoring a hopeful contact. You didn't mention how you respond to those you don't see. Originally Posted by OldGrump
Do what you are comfortable with. Like others have said, put in your Ad that you are low volume "1 - 2 per day". Originally Posted by selotnow these guys are offering pretty good advice, but ....
Just do what feels right to you, we are here to provide a service but it is your mind and body so do what you feel is right for you. I'm a low volume provider but I rarely advertise that I am - I just limit my appointments if necessary or let the gent know that I'm not available. Originally Posted by Trophie Girltrophie girl nails it solidly! you can accept how many gentlemen callers you'd like to see in a period and decline as needed. and do so without saying why.
because, in my opinion, when advertising, there's very little value in explaining why you are limiting appts; when replying, there's little value in explaing why you are unable to visit w/ them.
trophie girl's suggestion of "i'm not available" says just that - and not why [maybe you are not feeling well, having fun w/ some friends, getting a tan, have an all day visitor, have your monthly visitor, who knows.]
when contacting a woman, what i would like to know is a) where are you located [for drive times], b) are you available at a general time [cos that may be the only time i can meet that week], and c) what is your hour's visiting fee. if the answers work for me, then i'll continue the conversation and hopefully enjoy a deliteful encounter/visit.
i dont need to know why to any of those questions.
take care and take it easy, but take it - on your terms.
peace to you!
- guest071811-3
- 04-12-2010, 10:57 PM
guess what..GUYS HAVE NO WAY OF KNOWING..how many guys have been there that day..
anyone can say all they do is see "x" amount of guys say 1 or 2 a day.. doesn't make it true, doesn't make it false..
part of this JOB is telling the guys..aka clients aka PAYING CUSTOMERS what they want to hear in order to be your customer.. part of that may be making people believe a provider is low volume
at the end of the day.. i can say i limit myself to only 1 or 2.. it builds exclusivity (spelling).. it builds interest, it touches a market of guys that search for percieved low volume girls.. its a smart business decision all the way around for girls to do
perception can become reality..at the end of the day, i can promote myself a variety of ways.. but the guy truly does not know..can't know..has NO WAY of knowing.. none..nadda other than the girls word..and we know girls wouldn't tell fibs in order to be percieved a certain way..
am I saying the poster is lying..nope not a bit.. my point it..
IT DOESN'T MATTER..the whole volume thing is goofy at best and merely puts some guys minds at ease.. do you think a girl banging out 10 guys a day at $200 earning $2000 is gonna brag? hell know..that would be career suicide..she knows that.. how does she earn that much? she markets herself as so exclusive..so scarcely available that the phone rings off the hook.. each guy entering that day thinking he is only 1 of perhaps a couple of guys that got that SHOT that day.. wow what a girl..he got in..its so hard to get in.. she might have even bumped someone just for this guy cuz he is such an awesome hobbyiest.. (note sarcasm)
remember.. #1 guys only know what you tell them.. there is no way to know how many guys a girl sees..so only tell them what you want them to know.. considering majority of guys won't do reviews..and if you happen to get a few reviews they won't all have the exact date..thus elimating the chance of being caught..
also..one thing to consider.. is a girl really all that special that sees 1 or 2 guys a day.. 5 days a week.. thats upwards of 10 guys.. in 1 week.. i can see 5 guys 1 day..5 guys the next..see the same amount of guys in the end..
5 guys.. 1 at 8am, 1 at 11, 1 at 3:30 pm, 1 at 7pm and 1 at 10pm
considering that most guys are only active for at the most 30 minutes..if that.. we arent' talking much effort.. tiredness really dont' come into it at this point..and at the end of the week.. me and the "low volume" girl fucked the same amount of guys.. i work 2 days..she worked 5..same amount of money.. same guys
that doesn't work most will say cuz thats not low volume.. so its a matter of perception and the belief a girl can't possibly fuck 5 guys in one day and be energized..or the guy NEEDS to feel like she hasn't been ran thru so much that day..
guess what.. if i see low volume girl on friday.. and am the 2nd guy of the day on friday.. I AM STILL GUY #10 at the end of the week!!! she still fucked 9 other guys..lol
in the end.. do what you want.. cool way to remind people you are low volume..see who you want, earn the money you want.. in the end..guys don't know..
plenty of girls that claim low volume but are banging more guys.. why would they do different and risk guys taking offense..
anyone can say all they do is see "x" amount of guys say 1 or 2 a day.. doesn't make it true, doesn't make it false..
part of this JOB is telling the guys..aka clients aka PAYING CUSTOMERS what they want to hear in order to be your customer.. part of that may be making people believe a provider is low volume
at the end of the day.. i can say i limit myself to only 1 or 2.. it builds exclusivity (spelling).. it builds interest, it touches a market of guys that search for percieved low volume girls.. its a smart business decision all the way around for girls to do
perception can become reality..at the end of the day, i can promote myself a variety of ways.. but the guy truly does not know..can't know..has NO WAY of knowing.. none..nadda other than the girls word..and we know girls wouldn't tell fibs in order to be percieved a certain way..
am I saying the poster is lying..nope not a bit.. my point it..
IT DOESN'T MATTER..the whole volume thing is goofy at best and merely puts some guys minds at ease.. do you think a girl banging out 10 guys a day at $200 earning $2000 is gonna brag? hell know..that would be career suicide..she knows that.. how does she earn that much? she markets herself as so exclusive..so scarcely available that the phone rings off the hook.. each guy entering that day thinking he is only 1 of perhaps a couple of guys that got that SHOT that day.. wow what a girl..he got in..its so hard to get in.. she might have even bumped someone just for this guy cuz he is such an awesome hobbyiest.. (note sarcasm)
remember.. #1 guys only know what you tell them.. there is no way to know how many guys a girl sees..so only tell them what you want them to know.. considering majority of guys won't do reviews..and if you happen to get a few reviews they won't all have the exact date..thus elimating the chance of being caught..
also..one thing to consider.. is a girl really all that special that sees 1 or 2 guys a day.. 5 days a week.. thats upwards of 10 guys.. in 1 week.. i can see 5 guys 1 day..5 guys the next..see the same amount of guys in the end..
5 guys.. 1 at 8am, 1 at 11, 1 at 3:30 pm, 1 at 7pm and 1 at 10pm
considering that most guys are only active for at the most 30 minutes..if that.. we arent' talking much effort.. tiredness really dont' come into it at this point..and at the end of the week.. me and the "low volume" girl fucked the same amount of guys.. i work 2 days..she worked 5..same amount of money.. same guys
that doesn't work most will say cuz thats not low volume.. so its a matter of perception and the belief a girl can't possibly fuck 5 guys in one day and be energized..or the guy NEEDS to feel like she hasn't been ran thru so much that day..
guess what.. if i see low volume girl on friday.. and am the 2nd guy of the day on friday.. I AM STILL GUY #10 at the end of the week!!! she still fucked 9 other guys..lol
in the end.. do what you want.. cool way to remind people you are low volume..see who you want, earn the money you want.. in the end..guys don't know..
plenty of girls that claim low volume but are banging more guys.. why would they do different and risk guys taking offense..