Deleted Post?

I asked for a massage recommendation yesterday and my post got deleted. Did I violate some rule. New here and just trying to figure things out.

Sir

ISO’s are not allowed anywhere on ECCIE Your post is hidden.

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2665206

Please review the stickies on the top of each forum

The Dr

Newbie, you see, ya cant just come on here an ask for massage recommendations, jeez!
You might however say something like- "I have no interest in any of this sex stuff, but if someone were to talk about a massage they got that they liked, I wouldn't object to that- just for something to read in my down time. I am NOT in search of said massage though" That might fly under the radar, worth a shot.

Honest mistake. My bad. I am a newby to this board, but not a newby…

Now I know why my post got deleted..I mean hidden. What are we doing here….