What are your fears when meeting a provider?

  • anita
  • 09-09-2010, 05:18 PM
Just though it would be helpful to know what men/women fear the most when meeting a new provider....
Trey's Avatar
  • Trey
  • 09-09-2010, 05:19 PM
she may be on the rag. My great fear
next fear

this chick is not going to be the girl in the pic

last fear

getting busted by cops or robbed by pimp
When meeting a provider for the first time....

1. The chick may be a cop setting up johns.

2. This chick might be setting me up to rob me. (BP girls usually)

3. The chick is not going to be the one in the pics. (That one is easy....I'm out!)

4. She will smell

5. She will not provide the level of service claimed in her ads. (I've lost a lot of money on that one)
simpleton's Avatar
She has a cock...
cops, thugs, STDs, crazy-woman-drama, Bait-n-Switch, tuna-crotch, that she'll not like her work, that I'll like her work too much, that she'll have a weird growth on her nipple (seen it twice now...), that I'll leave her incall "itchy", that someone I know will recognize me or my car on the wrong side of town, that I will know her from my real life... oh shit, why do I do this again?
Eccie Addict's Avatar
She has a cock... Originally Posted by simpleton
I second that one man lol
That she will not be who she says she is, that is, that it turns out the pictures and physical description are inaccurate and/or the service is unexpectedly bad, which is usually becuse her reviews turn out to have all been written by her WKs and/or pimp.
pyramider's Avatar
Mostly the laughter after I undress.
thebodyguard_69's Avatar
She has a cock... Originally Posted by simpleton
you do know you have to click on "escorts" in BP and not "TS" right? lol
just fuckin with u...
notanewbie's Avatar
that her cock is bigger than mine
DEAR_JOHN's Avatar
One of my fears is that some provider who I would like to see would require a picture.

It isn't about my looks, it's about nobody in the hobby will get a voluntary picture of me. My looks falls somewhere between Tom Cruise and Quasimodo, the Hunchback of Notre Dame.
onehitwonder's Avatar
One of my fears is that some provider who I would like to see would require a picture.

It isn't about my looks, it's about nobody in the hobby will get a voluntary picture of me. My looks falls somewhere between Tom Cruise and Quasimodo, the Hunchback of Notre Dame. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN
Damn baby you went from 0-60.........thats a whole lot of in-between. So are you closer to Cruise or Quasi?
ThatManFromTexas's Avatar
One of my fears is that some provider who I would like to see would require a picture.

It isn't about my looks, it's about nobody in the hobby will get a voluntary picture of me. My looks falls somewhere between Tom Cruise and Quasimodo, the Hunchback of Notre Dame. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN
Damn baby you went from 0-60.........thats a whole lot of in-between. So are you closer to Cruise or Quasi? Originally Posted by onehitwonder
I make Quasimodo look like Tom Cruise...
  • anita
  • 09-09-2010, 10:27 PM
LOL. Some things you wrote may be true but funny. Pictures required are not about the looks. It is about an idea of who may show up at the door. Pictures not mandatory. Meow.
Fancyinheels's Avatar
Funny, funny people.

The fears of the gentlemen seem pretty much universal, and many can be eliminated by seeing a provider with a history on ECCIE. Reviews, reviews, reviews!

Screen, screen, screen for the ladies, but I always worry that today will be the day some vice cop cuffs me.... and takes me in. (JUST cuffing could be kinky.
) Another reason to welcome gentlemen with references off P411.

Even with references, it only takes a moment for someone to get too rough, or go bat-guano crazy. Being hurt or bruised is a fear. Having a guy take off with the envelope; seeing a fellow at my door who may be from or related to someone in my personal or past professional life; gentlemen with serious heart or other health issues who may go stiff in the permanent way on me; all are disturbing. STD's are just downright frightening, and no matter how careful, still a possibility.

Seeing some guys naked requires lots of Irish whiskey. Interpret that as you wish. You know who you are.

Damn, if I think about this too much I'll scare myself right out of the business! I need a hug.