Ladies, When In Public: Words or Actions Get Your Motor Marinating?

If you're sitting at a classy bar or restaurant with a gentleman what does it take for you to start getting wet? Does he need to whisper something risque into your ear of just fill it with moist, warm air? Do fingertips gently brushed up your arm do the trick or is it a finger stroking between your shoulder blades that gets your juices flowing?

I've had the most success teasing her with an envelope stuffed with several small portraits of dead presidents.

Action always speaks louder than words. $$$