Doing research

Hey everyone and thanks in advance if anyone can be of assistance, but I am currently involved in the early research of what I hope to turn into a novel. A large portion of the plot is focused on this area of life, and I would be doing my own more hands on research if I was closer Anyways I am just looking for any perspectives anyone might have had. Thanks in Advance.

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... I am just looking for any perspectives anyone might have had.... Originally Posted by rg138

I think you'll discover that this entire board exists to give voice to our perspectives. Happy reading.

Hey everyone and thanks in advance if anyone can be of assistance, but I am currently involved in the early research of what I hope to turn into a novel. A large portion of the plot is focused on this area of life, and I would be doing my own more hands on research if I was closer Anyways I am just looking for any perspectives anyone might have had. Thanks in Advance. Originally Posted by rg138

That's the most ridiculous thing I ever heard!!

There is an abundance of reviews as well as detailed erotic commentary in public forums. In my opinion, if you're doing creative work, and you need involved step by step direction, that is pretty much consulting. And some folks charge for that... Anyhoo pretty please don't make a cheesy, inauthentic "Fifty Shades of Grey" style rendition of the escorting world.

"I am just looking for any perspectives anyone might have had. Thanks in Advance."

Anyhoo pretty please don't make a cheesy, inauthentic "Fifty Shades of Grey" style rendition of the escorting world. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

^^^Oh lord PLEASE THIS THIS THIS^^^

As an author, you are supposed to write what you know about. You want to do research? Pick a lady and go see her several times. Don't just sit on the bed asking questions......let her blow your mind with a BBBJ finished off by asian cowgirl.

Then go see a half dozen different ladies. See how different they all are. Maybe then you will understand what is going on here.

If you need help finding the right lady(s) to do this with, lots of us will help, and there are "how to" manuals scattered throughout the forums. Just ask.

And don't be misled by all the "dirty, abused, diseased, whore" stories the media feeds you. Yeah, that type is out there.....but most of the women here have other lives. They're soccer moms, dental hygienists, nurses, beauticians.....ladies from all walks of life looking to make a few extra bucks and having one hell of a time doing it. They're clean, safe professionals.

Experience it yourself. Any attempt to understand it through the postings here alone will be nothing more than mental masturbation.

Geez...don't go by what's on the site. It's a drama board, and not an accurate depiction of too many players at all. If it's a work of fiction that you are working on, then you've come to the right place. Welcome, and would you care for some kool-aid?

Geez...don't go by what's on the site. It's a drama board, and not an accurate depiction of too many players at all. If it's a work of fiction that you are working on, then you've come to the right place. Welcome, and would you care for some kool-aid? Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

So you're saying that it's NOT true that every gent here has $38 million and a 12 inch package?

So you're saying that it's NOT true that every gent here has $38 million and a 12 inch package? Originally Posted by JustCause

No, of course I'm not saying that.

I guess I should have said, "Welcome to the truly elite club of the Rich and sexually gifted?" As evidenced by all the haggling and really happy ladies who participate here. LOL

Better?

Hey everyone and thanks in advance if anyone can be of assistance, but I am currently involved in the early research of what I hope to turn into a novel. A large portion of the plot is focused on this area of life, and I would be doing my own more hands on research if I was closer Anyways I am just looking for any perspectives anyone might have had. Thanks in Advance. Originally Posted by rg138

If you're going to write in American English, you will need a better command of the English language, so, your readers will know that you're being funny or
mimicking a colloquialism when you use words like "anyways".

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/anyways

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Better? Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Oh, much. And as a reward I shall now hop aboard my private jet and whisk you away to a private island (which I own, of course) for a glorious weekend of unlimited trysts, rose petals everywhere, and champagne and strawberries. We must negotiate your price because: a) I'm THAT good in bed and everyone knows how much you ladies live to have sex; and, b) this is a business venture and all things must be negotiated; and, c) there will be plenty of off-time for you on the island--sometimes as much as several minutes every four hours--since I can only have 8 to 10 orgasms per hour; and, finally, d) we negotiate because EVERY lady on the board wants to take a free vacation with me.

Isn't reality lovely?

There's many more intelligent & beautiful women on here that need no "research". They're wonderful beautiful women. When I saw the original thread title, I though someone wanted to know how to search for a good match for their desires. Turns out it's research for a dime-store novelette? I suggest Backpage for your research. That's where all the factual information is

Oh, much. And as a reward I shall now hop aboard my private jet and whisk you away to a private island (which I own, of course) for a glorious weekend of unlimited trysts, rose petals everywhere, and champagne and strawberries. We must negotiate your price because: a) I'm THAT good in bed and everyone knows how much you ladies live to have sex; and, b) this is a business venture and all things must be negotiated; and, c) there will be plenty of off-time for you on the island--sometimes as much as several minutes every four hours--since I can only have 8 to 10 orgasms per hour; and, finally, d) we negotiate because EVERY lady on the board wants to take a free vacation with me.

Isn't reality lovely? Originally Posted by JustCause

All kidding aside, and I like your sense of humor btw, I think the reality of this biz, is what one decides to make of it. I have fun doing what I do. As a social butterfly, I really enjoy making new friends, actually do enjoy sex, and refuse to willingly climb into any box that some try to stick every lady into on this board. I've come to expect no more than it is that I ask for, but also don't compare something as personal as an intimate encounter with something impersonal, such as selling/buying a car. (I'm still a female, even if I blatantly expect gratitude in the form monetary compensation for spending time with gents who wish to spend time with me) No expectations beyond what it is I offer and ask for that, along with refusing to accept that in order to make it in this biz, I must accept less because this is some kind of normal competitive market, means that I can not become disappointed or unhappy with what I do. Not to mention that I always seem to meet some really amazing men. Does this mean I am lucky? I believe that I am more than lucky....

Pay for Premium Access and read the reviews posted on ECCIE. Pay attention to the "ROS" section for the details.

If you can get a publisher's advance (not likely!) you might do some "hands-on" research.

Pay for Premium Access and read the reviews posted on ECCIE. Pay attention to the "ROS" section for the details.

If you can get a publisher's advance (not likely!) you might do some "hands-on" research. Originally Posted by ICU 812

Awww....you don't believe that everyone's perception of an encounter is spot on, do ya? Not everyone tells the truth, and why would anyone want an ROS exactly like someone else had? I'm sure there are good reasons, but I've yet to hear one that I can really understand. Each of you are unique to me, so no way, we can be otherwise. IMO Not to mention, not everyone is 100% honest, as much as they just wanna be admired for their prowess. (not to doubt any one specific person or even many persons are not truthful) I'm sure the majority are, but....

How about, instead of rushing into it, maybe research many occurrences, ensure accuracy or even same services are provided throughout at least several reviews? You don't even have to read ROS for that. Comparing what a few have to say, as opposed to reading one review and you decide you are in, might be a little lazy and gullible in the trust department. Not that everyone has hours and hours to research. I understand that most don't.

Your next best bet, is reputation. Of course, we all like what we like superficially as well, so the look is really important to some. Many are not so caught up with exact weight, height, hair color, age, or even if a specific item is on the menu....they just want someone more accepting of them, without a hassle, yet still a great experience. So be diligent, yet do not be unyielding. There is no telling what experience you might miss out on, if you believe whole heartedly you can only enjoy "this" or if you believe in what specific others have to say, or maybe even it is that you are not inclined to see between the lines.

Trust your own intuition, it rarely steers you wrong if you do. I suppose experience is the best teacher. It hones your ability, more so, to pick and choose those more inclined to suit the needs you have.

There is literally no reason that every man here can not find what it is he seeks. And, never fall into believing another knows better than you what that is.

Hobby on and have fun. That's really what we all want anyway.