Dallas Findom and/or Consensual Blackmail?

Any Ladies here do any Findom and/or Blackmail?

Not in Dallas, but yes.

wow. If you have ever been blackmailed you probably would not be asking for this

Not in Dallas, but yes. Originally Posted by GypsyHeart

Would you be so kind as to expand on how it works with you, please.

If not, I understand.

Of all the scenarios I can imagine fo sexual gratification, this one doesn’t even rank. I can’t wrap my head around it.

What is the gratification ? How does it result in arousal ?

Would you be so kind as to expand on how it works with you, please.

If not, I understand.

Of all the scenarios I can imagine fo sexual gratification, this one doesn’t even rank. I can’t wrap my head around it.

What is the gratification ? How does it result in arousal ? Originally Posted by crashkopf

It is a Financial Domination thing and if you're not into that then you won't really understand the appeal. I've personally not done Findom blackmail but the basics are the lady gets the guy to give up personal information like his full name, address, workplace, personal phone number, spouse's phone number and email address etc.

Then the Findomme lady gets the guy to do things online or in person that are potentially very embarrassing if disclosed to others. If online this done during private sessions on web cam either through Skype or one of the cam sites. The lady takes pictures and even records the video of the guy doing stuff. What he does is going depend on what the Findom and guy are into and any negotiated boundaries. Some examples would be cross dressing, sucking a dildo, anal play with plugs & dildos, self punishment with paddle, whip flogger, just all sorts of things are possible. Some Findommes will do stuff in person but you can add in things that will incorporate her actions like pegging, boot licking, ass worship, maybe she'll bring in another guy and do "forced bi".

After the Findomme gets material on the guy she will "threaten" to disclose this stuff in some manner. That disclosure can range from pictures, video and private information being posted on the Findomme's social media to straight calling or sending stuff to the guy's wife. It really just depends on how "deep" into it they get. A lot of times at least with the cam models I've seen do this the guy has an opportunity to stop the disclosure if he pays a "tribute" to the Findomme.

A lot of Findommes have blackmail contracts that sorta spell out what is going to happen that the guy has to agree to before she will play with him. That way she is at least sorta protecting herself legally. But there are some, especially if they are not based in North America who are willing to get pretty ruthless to get what they want out of a guy. I've seen some Russian Findomme cam models get pretty nasty. Russia does not extradite its citizens so the worst that can happen is they get kicked off the cam site and have their social media sites shut down.

Jannisary pretty much nailed it. I have a series of questions, including discussing what the play budget is.

Jannisary!!!

Thank you. This makes perfect sense and is quite understandable.

I really appreciate the effort and time you invested to spell this out to me. I had zero clue and that is why I never understood it.

Now I do, and I must say it is arousing. Not something I think I am going to explore myself, but hell yes, having a male sub wrapped around your finger with fear of exposure is quite stimulating.

Fear can sometimes be our biggest motivator !

Many sincere thanks, again !

Any ladies here into this?

Hi can I pay you to basically ruin my life? Thank you very much.

I'm surprised that the replies are still on page one

Turtles live a long time.

See.. here's the weird thing-- one needs to only google the term to find all manner of people that offer the service.

I'm surprised that the replies are still on page one Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

Is this something you offer?

Here's the thing-- those who do it professionally in any capacity.... know that in general, those who are serious about partaking in the activity-- will seek out the lady that interests them and contact them properly with a tribute.



Moreover-- with SO MANY sites catering to this particular subset of FemDomme-- a serious piggy wouldn't still be looking on this site two years later.....

Next thing you know there will be a stalkdom fetish where you're paying someone to stalk you every day and make your life a living hell.