From a providers point of view. Not stimulating to finger her but more of a turn off.

From a providers point of view. Yes this will be hear say cause it is 2nd hand info.
i had just had a wonderful time with a provider BCD but after BCD we just laid there in time, we started to chat. The one thing that came up was fingering the vagina or a fingering of the Greek island. The BCD that had just occurred and had no fingering in the vagina just only DATY but not in the vagina. The provider had relayed that it is not stimulating to finger her but more of a turn off.

So after having had a great experience without the fingering.
So is Fingering more PSE related? Has fingering come from Porn and is not a turn on for a provider but just something they do in Porn?
i know i am not one to have a finger stuffed in my Greek island and Not even to milk the prostate.

What are other turn offs for providers too?
For me... Fingering for a long periodof time, and very hard, is very painful. Not pleasurable at all.
CG2014's Avatar
You are suppose to wet/lube your finger before putting it in one at a time and slowly and seque into more than one but no more than two at a time and also make sure your fingernails are trimmed, filed smoothly and clean before you finger a woman.
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your post looks like it was copied and pasted from my last review!



I get it.. think of the finger as an object, a pointed stabbing object.. sure, if done correctly, utilization of a finger(s) can work well, but I imagine too many guys jab, poke, and go too fast.. add in long nails, and I wouldn't want fingers going in and out of me!
your post looks like it was copied and pasted from my last review!



I get it.. think of the finger as an object, a pointed stabbing object.. sure, if done correctly, utilization of a finger(s) can work well, but I imagine too many guys jab, poke, and go too fast.. add in long nails, and I wouldn't want fingers going in and out of me! Originally Posted by Chung Tran
My point exactly!
I like a finger or two sliding in and out of my pussy during DATY. Done right that dual action trick makes me cum so so good. It's not a common skill.

But please wash your hands first. Always.
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Sounds like a generalization. I had a session two days ago where the provider had me slowly and gently insert 1, 2, 3, 4 fingers then my thumb and the rest of my hand. She had at least three o's while I was doing this. And no, she wasn't all loose when we mish. She had amazing kegel control. So ymmv is the rule.
You fuckers don't know how to do it, I usually get about half my foot up in their shit. Drives them wild!
The ol' pink sock.
daddyo67's Avatar
It's simple! some like it some don't!
Laura Lynn's Avatar
If it's done right, I love it and can easily cum. Key phrase, IF IT'S DONE RIGHT...... and it can sure be a mood killer if there is a sharp nail.
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You fuckers don't know how to do it, I usually get about half my foot up in their shit. Drives them wild! Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

LMAO I miss you and your foot!!!

But seriously, it is not enjoyable and does nothing for me.
Not to say I do allow it...it varies, and Most need to be in tune with our body to be comfortable. There are some who just don't what the hell they are doing.
Being gentle and hand washing is a must!!!

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Nothing you do to anybody behind closed doors can have a blanket statement attached to it regarding whether it's enjoyable or not.

WALDT!
LMAO I miss you and your foot!!!
Originally Posted by berkleigh
I miss you too boo, oh how I long for the day when I can take you into my arms, lower those panties, and lovingly massage your engorged, throbbing clit with my middle toe knuckle! What a hell of a time! 😂
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I don't find any pleasure in FIV that's why I don't allow it but I very much enjoy DATY!!