Scorpio, my experience has been the same as yours. For me, at least, I believe part of it is due to the fact that all of the visitors I've seen were in very upscale accommodations. For some strange reason, that makes me feel more secure (and aroused) than a sparsely furnished house or apartment. Don't ask me to explain it because I can't. Might just be the luck of the draw. Originally Posted by EnergyYes I agreed with you on that one energy in regard to incalls, the accommodations thing is always in the back of my mind because it's always the same place week in and week out. No matter how nice the apartment or condo ect. it's like damn, how many guys have been in this place? So I get the MP feeling right off the bat, regardless if its rushed or not, and it definitely takes away from the GFE.
I've come to notice that the GFEs experiences I've had with both local and visiting providers, there is a noticeable different between the two. Like most, I try to book sessions with visiting providers before they reach town. So maybe it's the anxious anticipation of the rendezvous, or maybe it's the import "supply and demand" factor. Maybe just that visitors have more time to prepare for their arrangements. Or perhaps it's something a little less subtle, or maybe I'm just trippin, idk. Whatever it is, the endearing euphoria i tend to feel with GFEs is much more profound with visiting providers I've had sessions with so far. Now don't get me wrong, I've had some spectacular experiences with some local providers, so I'm not trying to ruffle any feathers here. I'm just saying there is a difference other than the obvious to me. Maybe some local providers get a different feeling with vising clients, who knows. Your thoughts? Originally Posted by scorpioseventy7Every gent's sentiment on this is going to be different, I can see both sides...However, as a provider, I honestly don't think it should matter if I'm touring or in one of my base cities, it's not going to affect my performance or the quality of my incall.