I was reading up about how p411 works and understand they toss all your info after. If that's the case what's the difference if someone has a ton of reviews here, no alerts from any ladies and a guy who has p411? There's a Canadian board that let's the ladies make a post on reviews to confirm everything was cool. Why wouldn't that work here?
As hobbyists we assist the ladies and each other by doing reviews. Why can't the ladies do the same. If this has been beaten to death call me stupid but at least provide the link to the thread, I couldn't find it.