Advice for newbie?

I have my first encounter scheduled for tomorrow with Sinsation. Does anyone have any advice? I’ve lurked here for a long time now, but am still struggling with concern regarding LE. Having had a lifelong MILF fantasy, I’m very eager to delve right in - but, with only one review here and two reviews on PD (both by users who have only reviewed her), I’m worried this scenario may be too good to be true.

1. Arrive early to allow for traffic, let her know you're there, and tell her you have a plan to pass the time until she's ready.

2. Schedule her 90 minute or 2-hr session if you can, to give you some time to break the ice with a little conversation. 10 minutes is usually fine - 20 if the conversation is going well.

3. Have 10% of the fee handy for a tip if you enjoyed yourself, or more if you like.

4. Most importantly, if you see something or experience something you like, tell her. Give her a heartfelt thank you for her time and attention.

5. Be flexible. Things most likely won't go perfectly and you'll have to go with the flow some. If they do go great, then that's the more to cherish.

1. No, don’t do that. She will be aggravated that you are showing up early. Show up on time.
2. Absolutely do not do this. Schedule 30 minutes if she allows. If you like her you can schedule more time the next time. Paying her escort rate to talk to her is a waste of money.
3. Yeah, don’t do this either. This isn’t a strip club or massage parlor. Tips are not expected or required. Tell her how much you enjoyed yourself and that you would like to see her again. Save the tip for a waiter.
4. Yep
5. Yep

Popeye is fucking with you man. Lol. Arrive at the scheduled time. Girls on these sites aren’t LE. Don’t over think it. Arrive at the scheduled time. Don’t be creepy. Have great sex. Pay the amount negotiated or set prior to your arrival. If she tries to upsell or charge more on arrival, use your big head and leave immediately. Be clear what you like and want so she doesn’t have to guess. Enjoy yourself. Don’t overstay your welcome and leave happy.

Don’t schedule for a long visit if you don’t know what you’re getting. That’s gonna result in a loss for you.

... with at least some of the comments so far. While I do insist it's so important to not be late that you have to allow for traffic, it is probably stupid to call her when you arrive early. I've done it and didn't suffer because of it, but why risk creeping out the lady.

As far as the rest of the comments I do respect the experience of the other gentlemen even if it's not the same as mine.

... and I have a lot more advice for you but I think I will quit while I'm behind!

How did your first encounter go mr?

Respect the advice of the elders, they know.

Don’t see any advice from providers, so I hope it’s okay to share my perspective!

It should ease your mind to know that PD requires ID verification; you can be pretty sure that the ladies you find on there are legitimate & not LE. Also, I don’t think 10 reviews versus 2-3 really changes anything re: the level of risk.

Appointment length depends on your preferences & your budget, but I do agree that booking 90 minutes or 2 hours is ideal for a newbie. You want to have time to relax & spend some time getting to know each other. This also gives you adequate time for MSOG if that’s your thing, because a lot of guys will realize in the last 5 minutes of an hour booking that they can’t finish again. On the other hand, if you’re the type to clam up when you’re anxious or just want to be in & out quickly, an hour could be better. Really depends.

Definitely don’t tell us if you arrive early, it puts us on edge lol. Tips are always appreciated (but not expected) if you feel that you’ve had an exceptional time, just as with any service.

Remember that you’re running the session & we’re doing our best to adapt to what we think you like. So, don’t be afraid to communicate & make your preferences clear. If you seem slow & sensual, most providers will respond similarly. If what you really want is high-energy raunchiness, it’s up to you to get that across.

Well said

1. No, don’t do that. She will be aggravated that you are showing up early. Show up on time.
2. Absolutely do not do this. Schedule 30 minutes if she allows. If you like her you can schedule more time the next time. Paying her escort rate to talk to her is a waste of money.
3. Yeah, don’t do this either. This isn’t a strip club or massage parlor. Tips are not expected or required. Tell her how much you enjoyed yourself and that you would like to see her again. Save the tip for a waiter.
4. Yep
5. Yep Originally Posted by Joe Blows

Jesus seriously Joe?

Don't ever hawk around... ND tip appropriately..
Period

And I AM an elder..

J.s
Annie

Dead serious. Nobody tips providers except simps who fall in love because someone kissed them. These are the same people who send gifts from “wish lists” and buy monthly text packages etc.

Dead serious. Nobody tips providers except simps who fall in love because someone kissed them. These are the same people who send gifts from “wish lists” and buy monthly text packages etc. Originally Posted by Joe Blows

Lol, seriously? I'm cheap, so I get tips from nearly everyone I see. Nothing major, but an extra 20 to 40 bucks, sometimes flowers, sometimes a meal. Everyone knows I already live with someone, so there goes that fantasy. Some people are just nice, imagine that.

None of these guys are in love with me, especially being I don't offer anything that would confuse the simps, as you call them.

People who tip regularly everywhere they go, tend to tip providers because it's a service.

I don't believe in wish lists, too presumptive IMO.

We need to get back on topic. OP asked a question

Thanks

Just curious if you went and if you enjoyed?

I have my first encounter scheduled for tomorrow with Sinsation. Does anyone have any advice? I’ve lurked here for a long time now, but am still struggling with concern regarding LE. Having had a lifelong MILF fantasy, I’m very eager to delve right in - but, with only one review here and two reviews on PD (both by users who have only reviewed her), I’m worried this scenario may be too good to be true. Originally Posted by mrforreal