Craigslist Casual Encounters

crozwell's Avatar
Hobby budget has been non-existent lately due to holidays, so the last week i've cast a fairly wide net on craigslist, posting a few of my own ads, as well as responding to any w4m ads that dont seem like fishing spam(they all do though) - Anyways, i've gotten nowhere, seems like its all just spammer bots, or dudes pic collecting

Has anyone ever had any success finding a hookup on there?????
Highwayman64's Avatar
Nope worse than BP
Gotyour6's Avatar
I have found two in my life of being on it which isn't good at all.

One was a 30 something year old that was married and wanted to have a NSA deal. It lasted a long time but her phone went dead and never answered back so I assumed she just wanted to stop. Seen her at a store with the hubby so maybe things are going well for her meh.

Another time was this very young black girl that wanted to have an older guy. I was with her for about three months but I ended it due to distance.

This was years apart and a lot of bullshit in between.
pineappleguy's Avatar
I got close a couple of times. I had one MW4M scene all set up and the wife got cold feet at the last (the VERY last) minute. I also had one W4M hookup in the works but got the feeling she was more interested in a LTR than anything casual and I bailed.

They're out there, but pickings are slim and competition is fierce.
gaijin1969's Avatar

They're out there, but pickings are slim and competition is fierce. Originally Posted by pineappleguy
True. So much crap on there.
Got 1 long term FWB (lasted a few months until I moved away... we both knew it was a "limited engagement" lol and squeezed in a lot of kinky shit until it ended.... fantasy fulfilment for both of us.) Most recently hooked up with another married couple at ToTT and fucked his wife with him in a video booth lol

Good times both. Years apart.

"Free" pussy involves a LOT of time investment wading thru the crap on CL. It offers its own type of excitement of actually scoring lol but so much work and frustration.

But if your looking to "jack off" a bit mentally as well as simply getting laid, its possible.
Franklin4's Avatar
My People,
yes there is alot of crap on CL (spam) and also rip offs
I guess it also depends on where you live.
I have anserwd many ads, and also posted Many ads myself
I have had (some) success, - if your in Rochester - all I can say is keep trying..
and by that I mean every day
cale1964's Avatar
This girl from the below "alert" was on CL yesterday.....great photo actually:

716 909 5057

She pulled a classic scam: She asked for money up front. Then took it into the hotel bathroom to 'hide' it (already I was suspicious). Then when she's barely begun a hj her 'brother' bursts into the room with her kid. He puts the kid in the bathroom, and tells her it's his room and she can't be doing business in it. She says she'll meet me at the tops next door to the hotel to bring my money back. Sensing a scam already I warned her that if she didn't show up in 15 minutes with the money I'd post everywhere I could that she was a scammer. I even said I'd give here a few dollars for her time if she really was telling the truth. After 10 minutes, she wouldn't text me back, or answer her phone.

Spread the word and don't let her do it to you!


So, she answered my CL inquiry:


Yea bp pay to play i host in my motel 130 hr 90 half hour 75 quick stop text me or call 716_909_5057 im on the blvd by 190
Sent from my Kyocera Rise


And my reply: (Which garnered no response)

You know it is sad you have to resort to this stuff, you can do very well financially playing this straight. Please be careful because someone not very nice may take exception to such behavior. Be careful.
crozwell's Avatar
Cale, I saw that as well. Great pic. I responded with the link to the alert.lol
Guest042416's Avatar
you know free pussy can be found in a bar or club especially at 3 am lol
its not that hard , why why why go to craigs list???

go to the bar or club.
crap go to the laundry mat on a Friday night at 10 pm, lots of action.

just gotta look boys, just gotta be smart.
The only issue with that is the girl you meet likes you and wants it all and then u get scared and go back to hobby lol
but please if youre going to cl, u might as well play the lotto
crozwell's Avatar
Bjwstw- you either are not married, or have the coolest wife in the world.
Guest042416's Avatar
single too many friends of mine that got married and well I saw the destruction so I stay single.

if I was married I wouldn't do this, don't see the point, if you make that choice to get hooked honor it.
cowboy8055's Avatar
if I was married I wouldn't do this, don't see the point, if you make that choice to get hooked honor it. Originally Posted by bjwstw
I've never been married either. Don't think I'd hobby if I was but you never know for sure.
borderx's Avatar
Cale, I Also responded with an alert on that girl.Shes still posting.
I've never been married either. Don't think I'd hobby if I was but you never know for sure. Originally Posted by cowboy8055
single too many friends of mine that got married and well I saw the destruction so I stay single.

if I was married I wouldn't do this, don't see the point, if you make that choice to get hooked honor it. Originally Posted by bjwstw
That's funny you two saying that. I say the exact opposite, If I was single why the fuck would I pay for this? It is free everywhere if you have the ability to go out and get it. Married guys can't go sit in a bar and be exposed like that, someone will see us and it will get back to our SO and blow our life up. You haven't been married for a decade or two and had the same vanilla sex for that long. Go get married and stay that way for any length of time and then lets see what your attitude is. I would have to guess that single guys are the minority on here.
Like I say I don't pay anyone for sex, I pay them to go away afterwards. You guys make me laugh being all self righteous saying you don't see the point doing this if your married. And if you make a commitment stay with it. Trying to be all honorable when you are paying some trollip to lay down with you. You show me the hottest chick there is and I will show you someone that is tired of fucking her.
gaijin1969's Avatar
That's funny you two saying that. I say the exact opposite, If I was single why the fuck would I pay for this? It is free everywhere if you have the ability to go out and get it. Married guys can't go sit in a bar and be exposed like that, someone will see us and it will get back to our SO and blow our life up. You haven't been married for a decade or two and had the same vanilla sex for that long. Go get married and stay that way for any length of time and then lets see what your attitude is. I would have to guess that single guys are the minority on here.
Like I say I don't pay anyone for sex, I pay them to go away afterwards. You guys make me laugh being all self righteous saying you don't see the point doing this if your married. And if you make a commitment stay with it. Trying to be all honorable when you are paying some trollip to lay down with you. You show me the hottest chick there is and I will show you someone that is tired of fucking her. Originally Posted by Rumbledog
I was wondering when someone was gonna say the obvious (to us married guys anyways) Thanks RD!

Tho I respect their feelings on the subject, as hey, most of us felt the same way once upon a time.

There is a pic online I have seen and am too lazy to find (someone will I am sure) in the motivational poster type of way.... a smoking hot chick.... very sexy pic....

And underneath it says that somewhere, some guy is sick of her shit

(Or some such)

That's not to say those who "cheat" are all married to shrews. Some are. But there are many reasons for each of us to do what we do.

Gawd I hate these deep topics. Just can't help myself and keep from responding lol