So I’ve been seeing hobbyists discuss they’re taking advantage of providers who may be in tough spots due to the loss of websites and lack of regulars…
I just want to say this;
If you like or want to spend time with a certain provider, why are you trying to negotiate and haggle rates with her? The fact that you know that times may be hard right now due to the loss of sites so you’re trying to purposely lowball because you may sense desperation is sick. Shame on you.
If you don’t want to pay $400 an hour.. then don’t. Find someone doing $200 an hour. Why are you haggling? This isn’t an auction or swamp meet. This isnt Progressive. There’s no “name your price” tool. If she’s out of your budget or what you’re willing to pay, then just leave her alone and find someone you can afford. It’s that easy. The amount of time & money that comes out on our part.. it’s just a slap in the face honestly. As a hobbyist, you don’t spend money on our rooms, toys, protection, appearance, travel costs.. etc. Which costs way more than whatever you’re spending for this 30 minutes or an hour.. You get to come in full, and leave empty with a smile. So pay to play or stay away.