When I can combine the two, it makes for a lot of fun. I've been hunting and sampling as many different LMT's over the last few months, but I've discovered, they are either a really good LMT or they are a really good provider, but its rare to find someone that is really good at both. The few I found that I thought would be "the one", wind up being flaky, as i'm trying to find someone for a longterm multiyear arrangement and not just a one time thing. I've seen a few that I'd see once or twice, then their phones would go dead, I suspect they go out of business. Several years ago (around 2015), I found a really good Filipina LMT that met my needs, but then she moved around 2017. So I had to begin my hunt anew. I finally found another one in 2019, but last spring she moved back to Europe.
So both of them were long term relationships and both were skilled in discretion.What made these LMT's discreet? In the case of the last one, She would come to the house (we have a room & table specifically for massages) and give my wife a really good therapeutic Swedish or deep tissue massage for 90 minutes. It was a true massage that varied on my wife's needs, stretching, deep tissue or sometimes just relaxation techniques, but the LMT really knew her stuff. But our LMT never let on to my wife about my and her activities when it was my turn.
Then, when it was my turn.
. I would get an hour or so of a really good Swedish or deep tissue massage, followed by 20 to 30 minutes of really intense L3 activity. Our most recent LMT's favorite was DATY, she was funny in that when it came time for our fun to start, she would sometimes giggle like a little girl as she started to remove her clothes and lay back on the table "for her turn" as she would say. It was obvious from her words and actions, that there were times that she was looking forward to our session all day. Why? Because I'd make sure she got hers at least once if not more times, then we would proceed with our L3 activities. She liked to schedule us so that I was her last customer, mainly because she would want to recover after we were done. ie cuddle & nap time. Last spring, she went home (she's from Europe) and now I'm on the hunt for her replacement. But as I said, finding someone like that is a true unicorn.
Oh yeah, the REALLY hard part? is that the rate was the same as if she did two 90 minute sessions, no upcharge for the fun. I did make it a point to tip her well, so I usually gave her $400 for the both of us since her rate for two back to back 90 minute massages was $280.
Hopefully someday, I'll find her replacement.
Thanks for letting me share as I haven't been able to tell anyone outside of this board about my hobby and LMT activities.
