Civie Fking

I have always wondered ladies, if the hobby takes a toll on your mind on how you view civie guys that you might be interested in? I believe a provider needs someone that they can just let loose with BCD and not think about the pay. There's nothing wrong with a provider getting paid to fk but there has to be a time where you ladies are thinking, "I don't want to be a provider tonight or this weekend and want to be normal about getting fked without pay." So ladies, do you have someone that you normally turn to, to fk you when you just want to be fked without being treated like a provider?

I know this is a question for the ladies, but I saw a post on another board where a retired lady was thinking about getting back in the business because the sex with civie guys was so lacking. She said she really, really missed the hot sex she got from escorting, and the easy money wasn't so hard to take, either.

Like most things on this board, it's hard to make generalizations.

Wow...sex is better with civie guys than hobby guys for me.
Not a lot of ladies will come out and say it but you know me.
Will elaborate later...errrr...maybe.

I think I get treated and fucked alot better in the hobby world than in the civie world. I very seldom hook up in with civies, but hobbyist seem more eager to please you and I consider the atmosphere with hobbyist to be more exciting. And the best thing about hobby sex is that there is no bullshit to deal with after I kick them out of my bed. I don't think the thought 'Oh the sex was awesome but it would have been better without the envelope" will ever cross my mind . I am lucky to have developed relationships with my clients whereas I have just as much fun in their company as I do with my regular friends.

So at this point in my life I will say hobbyist are better than the few civvies I hook up with in and out of bed.

There has got to be a point where you ladies say its not about the money and I don't want to be treated like a provider on occasions.

Don't kid yourself, Shorty. It's AAAAALLLLLLLLL about the money.

And most of the ladies here are workaholics. lol

I have to agree that when Zarah and I do meet, it's better we do so on civie terms. No envelopes. No time limits. None of that hour, 2 hour crap. Hell, make a day of it. Laughing, fondling, playing, lunch, movies maybe but then good civie fun. Sometimes, we all need that.

There has got to be a point where you ladies say its not about the money and I don't want to be treated like a provider on occasions. Originally Posted by shorty

exactly. There's enjoying sex and "enjoying" sex because your being paid for it.
I prefer sex with my so than some hobby strange. Hobby strange is great but wouldn't compare it to sex with the SO.

When ya get old enough , you realize it is all a business transaction!

This subject brings up a dilemma that me and a past ATF (who has long since retired) had a discussion about one time.

She called me one night and had this major problem and asked me what she should do about it.

Apparently, she had a habit of going to the same Smoothie King everyday for several months and had kind of taken a liking to the young guy that worked behind the counter. She told me they would flirt back and forth and it was always innocent and nothing more than that.

Well one evening...she was really horny and ended up picking up this guy and took him back to her incall and fucked the daylights out of the poor dude. Now you have to take it into consideration that she was absolutely gorgeous and built like a hot pornstar, and needless to say...being a 'pro'...her skills were out of this world.

The poor unsuspecting counter clerk had no earthly idea what he was about to be subjected too. LOL!

She told me that after that night, she had to find another place to get her smoothies because the guy had fallen head over heels in love with her and would not stop blowing up her phone. She was worried that he was going to start stalking her incall which of course would have been very BAD!!

So the question was..."What am I going to do??"


It was a simple answer...."Stop picking up innocent civilians and fucking them like a seasoned hobbyist!!... Duh!!"

She didn't think it was funny, but she knew I was right.

Ladies...be careful out there.

What may be a fun, spontaneous evening for you...may totally wreck some guys brain...when he has no clue what you are capable of. We hobbyists are accustomed to your.....<ahem>.....TALENTS.
Those civilians out there who are the lucky few to be picked by a Professional Escort....have no idea.

+1

LMAO that is so true!!!

This subject brings up a dilemma that me and a past ATF (who has long since retired) had a discussion about one time.

She called me one night and had this major problem and asked me what she should do about it.

Apparently, she had a habit of going to the same Smoothie King everyday for several months and had kind of taken a liking to the young guy that worked behind the counter. She told me they would flirt back and forth and it was always innocent and nothing more than that.

Well one evening...she was really horny and ended up picking up this guy and took him back to her incall and fucked the daylights out of the poor dude. Now you have to take it into consideration that she was absolutely gorgeous and built like a hot pornstar, and needless to say...being a 'pro'...her skills were out of this world.

The poor unsuspecting counter clerk had no earthly idea what he was about to be subjected too. LOL!

She told me that after that night, she had to find another place to get her smoothies because the guy had fallen head over heels in love with her and would not stop blowing up her phone. She was worried that he was going to start stalking her incall which of course would have been very BAD!!

So the question was..."What am I going to do??"


It was a simple answer...."Stop picking up innocent civilians and fucking them like a seasoned hobbyist!!... Duh!!"

She didn't think it was funny, but she knew I was right.

Ladies...be careful out there.

What may be a fun, spontaneous evening for you...may totally wreck some guys brain...when he has no clue what you are capable of. We hobbyists are accustomed to your.....<ahem>.....TALENTS.
Those civilians out there who are the lucky few to be picked by a Professional Escort....have no idea. Originally Posted by john353

Well I think civie sex will always be better than work sex for the SP because then she is getting her appetite wet versus having the sex because the money says so. I doubt the job messes with their views or outlooks on civie sex. They are human and have desires, wants and cravings and are more likely to serve those appetites through civie sex than work sex, if they get to the point that work sex is damaging their overall view on sex then it's time to get out.

It was a simple answer...."Stop picking up innocent civilians and fucking them like a seasoned hobbyist!!... Duh!!"

She didn't think it was funny, but she knew I was right.

Ladies...be careful out there.

What may be a fun, spontaneous evening for you...may totally wreck some guys brain...when he has no clue what you are capable of. We hobbyists are accustomed to your.....<ahem>.....TALENTS.
Those civilians out there who are the lucky few to be picked by a Professional Escort....have no idea. Originally Posted by john353

Ditto! I think the "No Strings Attached" guarantee is one of the exciting things about a P4P scenario, it's gets rid of the chance you might have to swat away some love-sick puppy dog.

[SIZE="3"][COLOR="Blue"]Don't kid yourself, Shorty. It's AAAAALLLLLLLLL about the money.
And most of the ladies here are workaholics. lol Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Yes. Don't you just love it when people try to sugarcoat it?
As my friend London would say "This is fucks for bucks".
would any of these ladies be here if they weren't being paid? No....Dallas rain maybe..

I have to agree that when Zarah and I do meet, it's better we do so on civie terms. No envelopes. No time limits. None of that hour, 2 hour crap. Hell, make a day of it. Laughing, fondling, playing, lunch, movies maybe but then good civie fun. Sometimes, we all need that. Originally Posted by mijo(BFE)

Lmao.

When ya get old enough , you realize it is all a business transaction! Originally Posted by WTF

Yes bro!

This subject brings up a dilemma that me and a past ATF (who has long since retired) had a discussion about one time.

She called me one night and had this major problem and asked me what she should do about it.

Apparently, she had a habit of going to the same Smoothie King everyday for several months and had kind of taken a liking to the young guy that worked behind the counter. She told me they would flirt back and forth and it was always innocent and nothing more than that.

Well one evening...she was really horny and ended up picking up this guy and took him back to her incall and fucked the daylights out of the poor dude. Now you have to take it into consideration that she was absolutely gorgeous and built like a hot pornstar, and needless to say...being a 'pro'...her skills were out of this world.

The poor unsuspecting counter clerk had no earthly idea what he was about to be subjected too. LOL!

She told me that after that night, she had to find another place to get her smoothies because the guy had fallen head over heels in love with her and would not stop blowing up her phone. She was worried that he was going to start stalking her incall which of course would have been very BAD!!

So the question was..."What am I going to do??"


It was a simple answer...."Stop picking up innocent civilians and fucking them like a seasoned hobbyist!!... Duh!!"

She didn't think it was funny, but she knew I was right.

Ladies...be careful out there.

What may be a fun, spontaneous evening for you...may totally wreck some guys brain...when he has no clue what you are capable of. We hobbyists are accustomed to your.....<ahem>.....TALENTS.
Those civilians out there who are the lucky few to be picked by a Professional Escort....have no idea. Originally Posted by john353

Yesssssss! I can relate! I did something like on new years. The location was different though. Yup can't fuck a civie the same way you fuck a hobbyist....unless its your so and in that case it's better than you would fuck a hobbyist. Just saying

Well I think civie sex will always be better than work sex for the SP because then she is getting her appetite wet versus having the sex because the money says so. I doubt the job messes with their views or outlooks on civie sex. They are human and have desires, wants and cravings and are more likely to serve those appetites through civie sex than work sex, if they get to the point that work sex is damaging their overall view on sex then it's time to get out. Originally Posted by canuckvic

Exactly.

Of course its nsa sex...duh
The question is which is more enjoyable.
In the hobby we can't judge a guy's bedroom skills beforehand.