Ok so I love toys I have several I use on myself and on occasion bring to session upon request. Well last week I went out on a appointment to see someone for the first time & when I walked in he had the porn on ( cool with me ) after we start the session he gets up and busts out some toys...I dont have anything against them but I am not about to use someone else. I have no idea who they have been used on before me.
Guys and gals how many of you like toys in session? Am I just being a hypochondriac refusing to use others toys? Am I just being paranoid ? Guys do you take offense when a lady refuses to use your pleasure play things?
There's a reason toys are made out of particular materials. For the same reason STDs don't go through rubbers, they don't start growing on toys. Just because someone used it three days ago, that doesn't mean it's infected.
Okay, what if the item was used recently? Could a disease survive? Well, the answer would be how recently--I'm not aware of any STDs living very long outside their host on a dry surface. The aids virus, for instance, seldom lives more than a few minutes if memory serves. It's extremely weak outside the body.
In general, if you're concerned and don't know/trust the gentleman, ask if he/she has toys that he wants to use, and ask if it's okay if you clean them in the bathroom. A bit of soap and water will take care of any problems. However, if the toy shows a lot of wear and tear, and has rough spots, cracks, things like that--then definitely pass. Those kinds of areas where the designed surface has failed are more likely to cause issues (note . . . not that it's likely, just more likely than with a newer, better maintained toy).
Personally, I'm extremely fanatical about keeping things clean for ladies--it's not STDs I'd be concerned about so much as simple other every-day bacteria. Yeast infections, urinary tract infections, etc. that could come from the environment rather than from another person. Still, let's be honest--you're probably more likely to get these from your own than someone else's, since they're a lot more likely to clean theirs right before you come. (or so I'd hope) I'd suspect that people are a bit more cavalier about their own toys just because they 'know where it's been.' Personally, I'd be horrified if I got a lady ill, so I clean after every use, and then again maybe half an hour before the lady comes over.
I have brought buzzing devices to appointments but they are new and I open the package in the car only to insert the batteries. The devices are then left with the lady to enjoy later or toss at their discretion. Thinck of it as a one time use, for me.
I have a big enough collection of toys--so there is no need to use any that the guy brings
{if he insist...it will need to be washed & covered}
Bring some toy cleaner with in ur bag if happens more often?
IMO, it's your body, it's your choice. If the guy insists on using his toys, then take them to the bathroom and wash 'em off so that your mind is at ease.
With Giasanto's amazing rack I don't know why a guy would want to play with anything else.
I don't like to brag, but I keep a tidy, organized and disinfected toy drawer at my house. I really enjoy towy shows. I use the toy cleaner you can buy at the toy store, but if anyone is ever reluctant I just put a condom on it. I don't remember being turned down on that yet. I don't blame the providers. They don't know if you're as conscientious as you say you are.
I did some research and yea I think after looking into it im a little ore open minded about others toys Ill just personally wash them
I love toys but i always bring the lady a new toy if she is willing to use it, and what happens after i can say
With Giasanto's amazing rack I don't know why a guy would want to play with anything else.
Originally Posted by JK1982
You ever hear of taint?
You ever hear of taint?
Originally Posted by pyramider
Last time I tried touching a provider's taint she said "STOP IT!! Since I've gone 1.3" of dangling death, I can't go back..."
I wouldn't have a problem using it, but I sure would want to wash it and have it covered before it was used on me.