I am grew less attractive to a few of them because of the reasons,
They have a son or daughter or even both of the same or each. They are maybe in their early to mid 20's and I really hate to deal with a 22 year old girl or a 25 year old guy, or even two 24 year old girls would really give me the shivers seen those two looking at me dating their mother while I am like 10 or 5 years away from their age or maybe 12 years if some of them are like 18 or 19 year old adults.
Secondly, I have a attraction to women my age that are like 28-32 years old. I usually aim for those girls, but they do not see guys their own age. So, what happens. A lady past maybe 35 (let's just say she is 43 or 45 years old) comes up and tries to talk to me and is really desperate. I am not a desperate, but I am picky and I do not do anything that looks like excess baggage. Or let's say, single 47 year old mother with two daughters. Or maybe a 54 year old mother with sons that are 6 years away from my age. I'd say they are 25 or 27 year old boys while I am freaking 30 close to 31 years old by next year and then having to deal with some 20 something boy that...damn...I just hate those odds. Excess baggage. Single, Separated, or even divorced. I have no time to hear about your dead beat husband or some other ex that doesn't have to deal with me or whatever it falls beyond.
And finally, I am tired of the catching the prey stuff. You will catch me. I am damage goods honey. You do not want me. I been through shit in my early 20's and now, 10 years later, it's over. I don't want to be some 20 year old's daddy or whatever I feel that makes me a little uncomfortable.
I just feel this way because I see it a lot with the early 30's guys or the late 20's guys, but to me, dating a 48 year old lady while I am 30 years old and she has for example once again a 20 year old son(s) or daughter(s) and once again feeling totally uncomfortable because I feel that they are adults and I would feel they would disapprove their mother dating someone as old as them or 10 years apart from them.
BINGO
So, to all the 28 to 32 year old girls, please see us. We make you laugh.
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